As David Wilcox said in his fine song "SEX AND MUSIC",

At first you say you'll do it for love,

But then you do it with friends,
but as soon as you do it for money,
Right there's where the innocence ends.

And why do you want them to love you,
What change are you trying to bring?
Do you lust after just their attention;
Do you want them to come when you sing?

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