Reading Quentin Crisp's books "The Naked Civil Servant" and "How to Become a Virgin". I realized (in a sort of blinding flash) that I could stop beating myself up for not being ambitious, and that there can be a LOT of fun in living the life of an under achiever.

Mudcat...It's helped me learn SO much about human behaviour (mine as well as others') that I can hardly believe it.

Cheers

Rick