PeterT is back, but recovering from jetlag, so I am taking a turn, again, here goes:

"For years we may have been hula girls with wildly gyrating hips in the back window of a car someone else is driving. Now, we dance on our own bumpy roads. We will refold our road maps the way we want them and life will conform to our desires." Excerpt from "Hula Girls" by Sheri Bradfield Copyright 1998