I think I am going to sound rather British, but, Fair Youngmaid, take care not to let your hormones choose a partner for you!!The most important part of a relationship is friendship, followed closely by trust. Also beware of rebound love. It feels great, but doesn't last. I'm a serial monogamist, mostly!!, but I do know what I'm talking about. You obviously didn't like him much, even though you loved him. Hwyl Bron.