P.S.
I think the "trigger" word was used sometime after the woman started talking.After that all I can recall is the womans face glaring back at me as she left the party,and thinking a combination of "how could I have been so stupid, what did I do, or why did I do that" not a specific thought just a general thought.
I can remeber that I was not even slightly drunk as I was able to help someone else at the party be sick into a bowl, and that when I couldn't get home from the party I walked a mile through town to try and hitch,(couldn't afford a taxi) and a mile back when I couldn't get a lift.
I have been set up by experts, and can see no way out of it.