Shambles, "pretence that this thread was ever entirely about songs!?"

I do believe when she asked about music, that's what she wanted to know. My perception is that the first person to mention "the gay community" and "alternative lifestyles" is the one who wanted to discuss them. It wasn't Kat - it was you. The evidence, yer honor

Her request might have looked like bait to you, but it looked like a request for songs to me. Your post, OTOH, was screaming "bite here." Perhaps you should have started/start the new thread.