Right! But that's still something they had in common. I guess what I'm trying to say is that everyone has something in common with somebody and it doesn't necessarily have to do with race, religion, or culture. Sometimes it does, but not always. And wherever you are, you might look for people who are like you - whether that has to do with gender, race, age, common interests, whatever.

Maybe the idea in my head is just bigger that what I have the words for.