Except, Guest (above) maybe, lusting after your offspring's friends just might be deeply disturbing to those friends.

Perhaps the friend's father who "lusted" after me when I was 12 was unashamedly proud to do so? Perhaps, he felt there was nothing wrong with that? BUt he seemed unable to make a distinction between the huge collection of pornographic imagery that he collected and the young, innocent "things" visiting his daughter?

I doubt that any man who is "proud" of his healthy desires would be posting anonymously ...

But you are right .. we need to to say no as adults to the way that sexually imagery is exploited. How can we expect our kids (and certainy in Britain with the hghest teenage pregancy rate in Europe) to say "No" if we don't. Lead by example..