Nicole, you gotta start your own session. Handsome mando player and i are tolerable players, but got weary of going to sessions where only the hot players could play. Started our own. It is a benevolent dictatorship..........everyone gets a turn, from the greenest of the green, to the hotshots. And all MUST follow the person who picked the tune/song.Works for us..........small circle, we have a floor limit of 10. Small house. And keeps everyone involved. No "tweeners" or talk allowed during session