Bobert, just my two cents worth..... I would spend a minute or two just trying to play through the logistics. Imagine lessons happening and working through those projects you want to get done. Can you stay out of each others space (and ears) while you both do what you have to do?? Since your out of the house six days a week is she doing more of the day to day house type stuff??? What would she love to hand off?? What would you rather never do??

At least in the beginning I would want a few places where either one of us could escape for a stroll or a cup of coffee when the need for space raised it's head. Mostly just wing it and listen to each other. Life will be good. If you didn't like each others company I doubt we'd hear so much about her here on the 'cat....

Breathe