Ok, so I read what I wrote up there and now it sounds stupid. Shoulda said I'm attracted to people with a good sense of humor. I haven't really lusted after anyone here.

Aside from the humor, which I love, is the feeling I get from folks here that's like...well, you know how some people are just popular? Everyone wants them for a friend. They have charisma, and a reputation for being nice. I think the reason is because they listen to people - really listen. And everybody here listens.