I agree with you, Mary. As a general thing the weekly music at my home is a song circle- each in turn either sings, plays, requests a song from someone else or passes. However, if someone is here who is in town to do a concert, that night is a different experience for us all. It simply never fails that the person is pumped so that s/he and those others present who are in the guest's league tend to give us a wonderful, special night. Those of us who don't perform will be encouraged by me (Calvin Ball, you know!) to listen, request, and appreciate. Isn't music wonderful!