I can't believe you would start a thread like this one... What were you thinking? Get a life! I'm sure you'd probably consider yourself a "sensitive male", and you probably read books and long to discuss the content too...

There, how'd I do? I am amazed at how difficult it is to find a shred of common decency these days... Were all in this competitive reaction thing, where the rude comeback has taken the leadership role. I just don't relate to it well, and I find this 'trend' to be the single most hurdlesome encounter these days. It gets in the way of so much goodness, and nice people just go home saddened on a semi-regular basis.

However, I reserve the right to 'deflect' mean people nuances... It is tough sometimes to deflect without 'reflecting', which tends to add fool to an already out of control fire... ;^) ttr