I was thinking about what I said about the best way of dealing with this kind of thing in a song circle might be to do it through a song.

And then I started trying to think of songs which might be helpful in this kind of context - tactful but strong without being pushy.

For example, when you feel someone is pushing too hard trying to impose their own views on other people, or when they've come out with something that seems bigotted in some way.

Any suggestions?