About "thread creep--"
I think we (nearly) all read the threads before we post, but, since we have minds, one thing reminds us of another, and that reminds someone else of something else... I think that the postings here *do* address the question at the beginning; at the very least, they let 'diggy-lo' know that the situation (and others like it) exist elsewhere, in other groups.

WYSIWYG said:
"I think people are actually capable of quite a bit more tolerance than we often expect."

Yep, and if we start acting like we expect it, it starts showing up more and more--like the "Lord of the Dance" thing I mentioned 'way back up at the top. When we came up with guidelines that were a compromise--it could be an individual choice, but not designated as "song of the month--" after a bit of grumbling, the malcontents decided that it was an okay solution, and settled back down to the matter at hand--MUSIC.

I think that the more you try to "sterilize" things, the more folks keep finding germs!

Denise:^)