In the grand scheme of fings. There has to be room for all of us in this 'broad church' as Raggy says it's more a question of proper programming to allow those who want a ballad session to be accomodated. As Raggy says, and knowing you as I do Noreen, you too would have been seriously peed off when a potentially blisiteringly good sesh (especially good for harmonies) sort of fizzled out because of a. it became a ballad sesh and b. the personality of the chap.