Shambles,

I have not had the time to read every thread for some time now, so I skipped the "Move on Down the Line" thread. I figured it was about the song done by the Kingston Trio "Buddy, better move on down the line."

It saddens me every time someone decides to leave because they feel harrassed or unwelcome.

It certainly has been an unpleasant time for many on the Mudcat recently, and that saddens me as well. When I read the thread on "Thread courtesy", it helped me to realize that the 'Cat can survive controversy.

There are several people whose emotions on certain issues lead to less than well reasoned discussion. I also note that there are some who seem a strong need to make their point again and again as if to try and convince others of their points of view. I feel I slid in that direction on the "gun threads" a few months back.

If I catch myself, I pull back and take a breather. I cannot change a person's thoughts. I may have some influence, but if that doesn't work at first, repetition does not improve my chances of success.

I would also note that each and everyone of us who has slipped beyond the bounds of reasoned discussion have also contributed mightily to the positive forces on the "Cat and so I welcome them as members.

I do hope you will come back. You have contributed several worthy songs to the Mudcat and you have been generous with your knowledge and opinions as well.

As a last note, you will not find me discussing the politics of "the troubles" on these threads. Firstly, because I am right ignorant of the issues. Secondly, if I was knowledgeable I still would not because it is inflammatory. The beliefs are firmly held and have been so for a long time.

Points may be offered to explain a song, but beyond that I think we get too far from the soul of the Mudcat.

I would suggest you may wish to take the same approach.

May your rest away from the 'Cat restore you and may you return soon.

Love,

Roger in Baltimore