I would suggest that "JC" find someone willing to handcuff themselves to him for at least 24 hours and it has to be in such a way that they cannot look directly at one another, even better if upper mobility is severely limited, while he takes a piss, tries to make love to his SO, wipes his arse, gets comfortable in bed, drives a car, plays an instrument, goes to venues he likes, that they aren't interested in, etc. Oh, and I wouldn't use those initials if I were him, since the original "JC" would have none of his unkindly judgement.