Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: mousethief Date: 26 Jan 01 - 01:34 PM For those not quite ready to let go, there's Bruce Cockburn's "What About the Bond?" (from the Humans album, 1980):
What About the Bond
disharmony gives way
it's all to easy
(Chorus:)
dysfunction
confusion (repeat chorus)
man and a woman
now you could say (repeat chorus) (Ottawa, March 28th, 1980)
Next, for people who are wondering what happened, there's Al Stewart's fabulous "In the Dark" (from the Seemed Like a Good Idea at the Time album, 1999):
In the Dark
They said "God Bless the Prince of Wales
Moving through the human tide
The Royal smile from magazines
These images are beamed to me
(Chorus:)
Those angry words you soon regret
You make it up and say no more
You sow each seed of discontent
And in the background all the time (repeat chorus)
So yes, let's bless the Prince of Wales
I am free to choose my part
In Africa the anchor slips
We go on from day to day (repeat chorus 2x)
This is from Paul Simon, on Graceland (1985?) for people who are ready to toss in the towel:
Crazy Love
Fat Charlie the Archangel
I don't want no part of this crazy love
She says she knows about jokes
Somebody could walk into this room
I don't want no part of this crazy love
Fat Charlie the Archangel
She says the joke is on me
I don't want no part of this crazy love
And from the wonderful and under-rated Bob Bennett comes this, once you're ready to laugh about it all, from the Songs From Bright Avenue album (1991):
Our Codependent Love
I never did anything
Re-writing history
No matter how hard I try
My life is so lonely now
When I need a vacation
I'm faking my mental health
Our codependent love?
Alex |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Noreen Date: 26 Jan 01 - 12:35 PM Thanks for the original post, bflat. I didn't read this thread the first time round, but now... Noreen |
Subject: Lyr Add: THANKS FOR THE MEMORY^^ From: Jim Dixon Date: 25 Jan 01 - 08:22 PM THANKS FOR THE MEMORY (Lyrics by Leo Robin, tune by Ralph Rainger.) Thanks for the memory Of things I can't forget: Journeys on a jet, Our wond'rous week in Martinique, And Vegas and roulette. How lucky I was! And thanks for the memory Of summers by the sea, Dawn in Waikiki. We had a pad in London But we didn't stop for tea. How cozy it was! Now since our breakup I wake up Alone on a gray morning-after. I long for the sound of your laughter, And then I see The laugh's on me. But thanks for the memory, Of every touch a thrill. I've been through the mill. I've lived a lot and learned a lot. You loved me not, and still I miss you so much. Thanks for the memory Of how we used to jog, Even in a fog, That barbecue in Malibu, Away from all the smog. How rainy it was! Thanks for the memory, Of letters I destroyed, Books that we enjoyed. Tonight the way things look, I need a book by Sigmund Freud. How brainy he was! Gone are those evenings on Broadway. Together we'd go to a great show. But now I begin with the Late Show, And wish that you Were watching, too. I know it's a fallacy, That grown men never cry. Baby, that's a lie, We had our bed of roses But forgot that roses die. And thank you so much. [Sung by Bob Hope and Shirley Ross in the film, "Big Broadcast of 1938."] |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: GUEST Date: 26 Aug 00 - 07:08 PM One of my favorite songs is "When The Children Are Asleep." I'm not sure that's the right title. My parents used to sing it together. It was fun to watch them. They were so goofy. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Lox Date: 19 Aug 00 - 12:38 AM Any Tom Waits But it has to be sung by "Tom Waits" Don't be fooled by bad impersonations of: "TOM WAITS" |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: bflat Date: 18 Aug 00 - 07:16 PM Hope, The singable songs are terrific. Not familiar with Tiny Sparrow and it is not in the DT. The lines that followed were maudlin and not with HOPE. Are you a contradiction? Hey, I've got enough grief without seeming to be grief. Thanks for the post. Special thanks to Kat--sent a PM. You are a dear. bflat |
Subject: Lyr Add: FAIR AND TENDER LADIES From: GUEST,Hope Date: 18 Aug 00 - 04:52 PM For me, the top three (none of which are particularly folk, but they're all singable) were Reba McIntyre's "Take It Back," Linda Ronstadt's "You're No Good" and the Waitresses "No Guilt." Best folk -- The Water is Wide or Tiny Sparrow: Come all ye fair and tender ladies Take warning how you court your man They're like the stars on a summer's morning First they'll appear, and then they're gone I wish I were a tiny sparrow That I had wings, and I could fly I'd fly away to my own true lover And all he asked, I would deny If I had known before I courted What all his lying would have done I'd have locked my heart in a box of golden And never would have courted more... |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: katlaughing Date: 18 Aug 00 - 01:15 PM bflat, keep listening to those who've been through it...it will get better, trite as that may sound. I am sorry you are having a difficult time. Just remember, there IS something better coming your way. Mimosa, the same goes for you. I am sorry to hear of the split. Keep singing and *harping*...you have a gift and by continuing to share you will enrich not only others' lives, but your own as well. luvyaboth...kat |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Mbo Date: 18 Aug 00 - 01:07 PM How about "I'm So Happy I Can't Stop Crying" by Sting (also redone as an awesome country hit by Toby Keith & Sting)? |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Bert Date: 18 Aug 00 - 01:03 PM And there'll be times when you just want to sing Elliot Kenin's "Fuck Off and Die" |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Shanti Date: 18 Aug 00 - 12:33 PM bflat...as one who became another statistic in 1992, (after 23 years), I can truly sympathize. It does take time, but you will make it. God! That sounds so trite. The song that immediately came to my mind when I saw this thread was Patrick Sky's SEPARATION BLUES. I'm not good advice, but I am an impartial listener if you need one. Write on the personal line if you want to. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: richlmo Date: 17 Aug 00 - 10:26 PM They aren't folk or blues,exactly 1. Heart Of the Matter - Don Henley 2. Last To Know-Dan Fogelberg I'm happily married ( 20 Years and counting ) , so what do I know? |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Matt Woodbury/Mimosa Date: 17 Aug 00 - 08:35 PM Currently I'm sing Willie Nelson's "CRAZY", and Sondheim's "Losing My Mind". I listened to my recording of "WIND BENEATH MY WINGS" which the Ex (of 3weeks now) requested I record, and I don't think I'll be doing that song for a while, or listening to it either. Ouch Mimosa (who's back in Dallas) |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Callie Date: 17 Aug 00 - 07:48 PM hang in there bflat. Good things will come to you again - you are much to kind a soul for it not to come together for you. Think about a few small things to look forward to. If there's nothing to look forward to, plan something. Small diversions and pleasures can lead to bigger fulfilment. Callie |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: bflat Date: 17 Aug 00 - 05:09 PM Help! Send me some reinforcement--please. bflat |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: katlaughing Date: 11 Jul 00 - 04:35 AM Sure thing, bflat, I'll send you a personal message about it. This Angels stuff is interesting. Why don't one of you take some of it and paste it into a new thread, so it doesn't get lost and you can add more? Thanks, kat |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Callie Date: 11 Jul 00 - 02:31 AM According to articles I read after seeing the film, Wim Wenders got a bunch of his favourite musicians together and asked them to record a song as they thought it might sound 20 years from now, to try to get a futuristic sound happening. The songs were all used in the film (which I'm still not sure about - was it really good or really bad? Dunno). I hadn't thought about the cd until you brought up "Angels" WyoWoman. It's 9 years old - can you believe it? When I first heard it I thought it was so 'cutting edge'. Still sounds pretty fresh, eh? I particularly like Crime and the City Solution doing The Adversary. Eek - this "Calling All Angels" stuff SHOULD have been a different thread. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: WyoWoman Date: 11 Jul 00 - 12:54 AM 'Days' is a great song, too. When my daughter graduated from high school she used that text as part of a photo collage she did of her and her pals and gave to each of them as a graduation present. It was very cool and the text was completely appropriate... (Ok, ok. Just one more thing and then i'll stop creeping. I also love the T-Bone Burnett song "Humans from EArth" on that CD -- In fact, I think that CD ranks as just about my favorite compilation CD ever. It certainly is one I play again and again and continue to enjoy -probably a decade after i first purchased it... I can't remember when the movie came out, but I got the tape after I saw the movie and the CD after I wore out the tape ... I just wonder about who made those choices of what music to use. Whoever it was, he/she has great taste...) |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Hollowfox Date: 10 Jul 00 - 04:39 PM I just re-discovered the perfect-for-me-at-the-moment song on the subject: "ONE MORE MINUTE" on Wierd Al Yankovic's "Dare to Be Stupid" album. Hilarious. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Callie Date: 09 Jul 00 - 10:15 PM Thanks for that interesting info Margaret. bflat, if you do happen to find the "Until The End of the World" soundtrack on which the song appears, you'll also find a very good version of Ray Davies' song "DAYS" performed by Elvis Costello. A bit of a wallowing song, but uplifting too. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Margaret V Date: 09 Jul 00 - 08:22 PM Apologies for propagating the thread drift (should we start a separate "Calling All Angels" thread?!) but I wanted to mention something regarding WyoWoman's qualms about it "not being folk." The last time I saw Jane Siberry in concert, she said that "Calling All Angels" was actually the result of a "song challenge" (my mudcat metaphor, not her precise words) among a bunch of songwriters hanging out, if I remember correctly, at Peter Gabriel's place. Everyone was supposed to write a country song! So this is what she came up with. Does a Canadian genius spending time at the home of a famous rock star writing a "country" song that ends up in a major motion picture give us something that counts as "folk?" Sure! WyoWoman, you won't regret the credit card bill. Margaret |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: bflat Date: 09 Jul 00 - 05:23 PM kat, If you can walk me through what I should do I'd love to receive the Midi. bflat |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: WyoWoman Date: 09 Jul 00 - 03:38 PM Thanks all.And thanks, bflat, for stirring up this conversation, which led to this "Calling All Angels" fan club (although I keep writing it "Calling all Angles..." maybe "Calling all Anglers." No, no. That was on the fishing thread ...) I'll go check out that CD. (Just when I think it's safe to put away my MasterCard ...) ww |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: oggie Date: 09 Jul 00 - 03:38 PM As someone currently going through the process it ain't fun and, as was posted, 'amicable' is a misnomer. Currently listening to Dick Gaughan's SAIL ON '..only a fool breaks their heart for what has gone...' and The John Wright Band album 'Other Roads' which has half a dozen suitable songs. For peace and quiet (even as a non-practicing Christian), Choral Evensong sung by a good church choir has much to recommend it. All the best Steve (oggie) |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Margaret V Date: 09 Jul 00 - 12:22 PM In the second verse, the words are actually "such love and intensity," not "dark intensity." Also, it's "but then you'd miss the beauty of the light upon this earth, oh, and the sweetness of the leaving," not "evening." Such a beautiful song. . . Margaret |
Subject: Lyr/Chords Add: CALLING ALL ANGELS (Jean Siberry) From: Callie Date: 09 Jul 00 - 09:45 AM NOT SURE HOW THE FORMATTING IS GOING TO GO, BUT TRY THIS! --Callie (with apologies to bflat - this is really off the topic. Hope you find the song somewhere and are able to enjoy it!)
The recording is in G, so you can play along with it with the following chords. It's hard to hear - without spending a few hours on it, it's hard to pin it down exactly, and the synth in the back I think is deliberately murky. There are lots of long passages where the chord doesn't exactly change from G, but there are lots of sus4 and Em with a G in the bass thrown in. Muck around with it!
Calling All Angels
I reckon you could play around with singing over this riff, but on the recording it sounds as though the chords do change once you get to the verse, as follows (approx):
G C
G
C G
C D
C
G to G sus riff
C D
D
D G
C Em
D C
D G
C G
Gsus
you'd finally understand
what this all means
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Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: katlaughing Date: 09 Jul 00 - 09:39 AM Here ya go: click here |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Margaret V Date: 09 Jul 00 - 09:16 AM "Calling All Angels" was written by Jane Siberry herself and it is on her album "When I Was a Boy" (one of my all-time favorite albums, by the way, though "The Walking" is right up there too). You can hear a sound clip of "Calling All Angels" at Jane's website, www.sheeba.ca/ All her lyrics are there too. Margaret |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Callie Date: 09 Jul 00 - 06:29 AM I don't know THE WALKING. Will post chords shortly ... Callie |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: WyoWoman Date: 09 Jul 00 - 01:18 AM I wonder, why's that?
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Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: bob jr Date: 09 Jul 00 - 12:32 AM I got another one: "AIN'T THAT LONELY YET" by Dwight Yoakam that's a good one! hey, Callie, if you can figure out "THE WALKING" I would love it cause the damn thing keeps eluding my meagre talents...and yes, wyo woman, I know the song from the movie soundtrack "til the end of the world" and also on jane's album "the angel looked down" I think it's called. I am a fan of her earlier funny albums (just kidding but her later stuff leaves me a bit cold but THE WALKING should have been huge up here in Canada but radio just ignored her) |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: katlaughing Date: 08 Jul 00 - 11:45 PM bflat, that's one of the Greg Brown ones I mentioned, which Margaret V, named "JUST BY MYSELF". I have it on his CD, "The Live One", released 1995 by Red House Records. If you'd like me to send you a sound file of it, please just let me know. I love how upbeat it is and the way he laughs about maybe not even folding the laundry, just wadding it up in a drawer and several other *rebellious* things! kat |
Subject: Lyr Add: CALLING ALL ANGELS (Jean Siberry) From: WyoWoman Date: 08 Jul 00 - 11:34 PM Callie, Here's my best stab at it, from listening to the CD. (For those who haven't been following along above, Jean Siberry and k.d.lang sing it on "Love You 'til the End of the World," soundtrack to the Wem Winders film of the same name...)
It's not folk, so I don't know if I should post it ... and I don't have anything here with the name of the composer on it, but if you can supply that (I have no idea where my CD case went ...) that would be great and we could give credit where it's due for what is arguably one of the loveliest songs you'll hear.
ww
A man is placed upon the stairs
Calling all angels, calling all angels,
Calling all angels, calling all angels
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Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Margaret V Date: 08 Jul 00 - 10:33 PM I think you're looking for "JUST BY MYSELF" which is on "Dream Cafe." You can check the lyrics at www.wing.net/gbrown/ Best wishes. Margaret |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: bflat Date: 08 Jul 00 - 08:56 PM There has been such an incredible amount of songs listed and lots of great thoughts that I am amazed and feel a lot of support. So thanks in a big way. I need your help identifying a song which I believe to be Greg Brown's. There is this refrain: I'm so happy happy happy. It's germane to this thread as I recall. Can someone give me a title and possibly release info? bflat |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: GUEST,Tale Date: 08 Jul 00 - 08:42 PM Neil Young has written (and performed) a song called "THE GREAT DIVIDE", which (even after many years since my parents divorced) really struck me. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: dwditty Date: 08 Jul 00 - 06:52 PM refresh |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: bigchuck Date: 08 Jul 00 - 08:40 AM One of my favorite "wrote my life songs" is Chris Wall's "I FEEL LIKE HANK WILLIAMS TONIGHT", (Jerry Jeff Walker's Live at Gruen Hall has a great version. |
Subject: Lyr Add: MY WIFE LEFT TOWN WITH A BANANA From: dwditty Date: 08 Jul 00 - 06:51 AM I do a song called "My Wife Left Town With a Banana" which may not actually fit a thread on divorce music, but it will bring a smile. I have no idea where I learned this from, but wherever it was, I give them credit here. MY WIFE LEFT TOWN WITH A BANANA My wife left town with a banana Life's a rotten deal I found that yellow sucker hiding in her purse He's cold and hard but he's got appeal I hope it never happens to you Some fruit breaks your marriage in two My wife left town with a banana She slipped away My wife left town with a banana Now I'm a jealous man She found a six-inch Latin lover Now she does the tango with her right hand Right now I could just die He's eating my banana creme pie Oh, my wife left town with a banana She slipped away |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Callie Date: 08 Jul 00 - 12:07 AM Wyo: If you post the words, I'll work out the chords for you. Not too tricky. Callie (with guitar in hand) |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Albatross Date: 07 Jul 00 - 03:26 AM Bflat you could try: "As I moved out one bright may morning....." but seriously you'll get over the divorce if you don't fight it and one day maybe you'll be friends again. Being single is not so bad. There's a big world out there and you're back on the market! Look on it as like being a student again. Foot loose and fancy free. best wishes, Albatross (Trying to keep flying high) |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: WyoWoman Date: 07 Jul 00 - 01:14 AM Do you happen to have the chords? I"ve written the words out but haven't sat down to figure out the chords yet... ww |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Callie Date: 07 Jul 00 - 12:46 AM WyoW: that's one of my favourite songs! (Calling All Angels) |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: WyoWoman Date: 06 Jul 00 - 09:59 PM Thanks, bflat. Yes, Bill H. THAT's a great curse/wish...I actually laid it on my most recent ex. (Hadn't bothered to remove the hex yet, but I understand he's just gotten married.) But, from the 'Be careful what you wish for' department, if I should end up with someone just like ME ... Lordy. It'd be a nuclear meltdown ... Scary thought. ww |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Bill Hahn//\\ Date: 06 Jul 00 - 06:39 PM Unless I overlooked it in all the postings no one has mentioned John Prine and his--"(I GUESS I WISH YOU) ALL THE BEST". He hopes she finds someone just like herself. A tear has now welled up in my left eyeball. Bill H |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: Fiddlin' Big Al Date: 06 Jul 00 - 03:23 PM Al Dexter & His Troopers "DIVORCE ME C.O.D.", from the 1940s will give you an upbeat attitude. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: wysiwyg Date: 06 Jul 00 - 02:48 PM kat,
duh duh duh DAH! ~S~ |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: GUEST,Ron Olesko Date: 06 Jul 00 - 10:53 AM Paul Clayton recorded a brilliant album called "Unholy Matrimony". The album is filled with songs that question the reasons for marriage. Also, Loudon Wainwright III has dozens of great songs on the topic. Check out the BBC Sessions CD! |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: bflat Date: 06 Jul 00 - 08:13 AM WyoWoman, Very true. Heal yourself. But it takes time. Alone time is only a measurement. Thanks for your cogent thoughts. |
Subject: RE: BS: Divorce Music From: katlaughing Date: 06 Jul 00 - 07:07 AM Thanks for posting those words, RtheR, I love Billy's stuff but had not heard that one! Hilarious and my dog understood every word!**BG** Kind of gender-specific, but one I liked a loooonnng time ago was *gasp* "THESE BOOTS ARE MADE FOR WALKIN'"...Nancy Sinatra! "Are ya ready boots? Start walking!" kat |
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