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12 Oct 09 - 06:52 AM (#2744001) Subject: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: nutty Many people have been asking about Theresa and even though there is nothing good to add to the previous bad news I thought I needed to post an update. I went to see Theresa on Saturday and was saddened by her condition. She can't talk or eat. Walking has begun to be a problem and she has lost the confidence to go out (even accompanied this is very difficult). Although she can still write with a pen she is losing some fine finger control so she finds typing difficult which has limited her use of the computer. The most distressing aspect of her condition is her constant battle to breath and deal with the saliva she produces which, if she tries to swallow, tends to choke her. Having fought the condition for so long she is becoming tired of the daily battle to survive. Particularly as no one can predict how long this will go on and the medical profession have given all the help they are able. Although I love her dearly, I left wishing and hoping that she could soon find some peace. |
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12 Oct 09 - 06:56 AM (#2744005) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Janie Sad news to hear, Nutty. Thanks for letting us know. Still holding you in my thoughts and prayers, Theresa. |
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12 Oct 09 - 06:59 AM (#2744009) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: jeddy nutty, bless you hunny, i know what you mean. it is cruel, the hand that life has dealt her these past few years. there is alot of love out here for you teresa. jade x x x x x x x x x x x x x x |
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12 Oct 09 - 07:22 AM (#2744016) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Willa Echoing the thoughts and good wishes of the previous posters. |
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12 Oct 09 - 08:20 AM (#2744034) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Linda Kelly Thanks Hazel, she is always in our thoughts. |
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12 Oct 09 - 08:24 AM (#2744037) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Catherine Jayne Thank you Hazel. We're keeping Theresa in our thoughts. |
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12 Oct 09 - 08:24 AM (#2744038) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: SINSULL Thank you Hazel for the update. I too pray she finds peace soon. But the crazy old bat is a fighter. Theresa is always in my prayers. Mary |
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12 Oct 09 - 08:26 AM (#2744040) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Bat Goddess I only met her once at the Getaway in 2005, but was impressed with what a vibrant, lively lady she was. I think of her often. Linn |
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12 Oct 09 - 08:39 AM (#2744050) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Tinker Thoughts and prayers form this corner of New Jersey as well... |
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12 Oct 09 - 09:23 AM (#2744084) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Sailor Ron My prayers are with her, always. |
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12 Oct 09 - 09:30 AM (#2744091) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: jacqui.c Good thoughts from Maine. This is a terrible disease. |
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12 Oct 09 - 09:52 AM (#2744104) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Micca I am saddened at the news , and like you, am hoping that my dear friend Theresa finds peace soon, My thoughts have been, and continue to be, with her, for the best outcome for all concerned, and much healing energy from here to her also Micca |
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12 Oct 09 - 10:45 AM (#2744137) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Morticia I am sorry to hear this, she deserves better and I pray she finds her 'better', whatever that means to her, soon. |
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12 Oct 09 - 11:10 AM (#2744156) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: kendall This is so damned awful I don't know what to say. |
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12 Oct 09 - 11:12 AM (#2744158) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Pistachio Oh Nutty, thanks for the update. Hugs and a card winging their way to Theresa. Hazel.x |
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12 Oct 09 - 11:24 AM (#2744165) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: wysiwyg I pray her peace now: peace in small moments, or the longer peace when it comes. (Any peace is good peace.) (((Theresa))) (((Theresa's Friends and Family))) ~Susan |
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12 Oct 09 - 11:43 AM (#2744175) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Mrs.Duck Thanks, Nutty, she is always in our hearts and our thoughts. |
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12 Oct 09 - 02:11 PM (#2744290) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: BADJELLY So sorry to hear about Theresa. First met her at Wigan F F when Bernie was helping run it. She used to come the Folk festival at Upton on Severn, which we helped run, and also came to Redditch at Headless Cross, in fact if it was a singers festival she was there! . Do send our love - Sue & Roy Jones. |
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12 Oct 09 - 02:28 PM (#2744307) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Little Robyn Lots of love and healing thoughts from New Zealand. Robyn and Mitch |
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12 Oct 09 - 02:50 PM (#2744320) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: My guru always said Sending love and hugs to Theresa, thanks for the update Hazel! |
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12 Oct 09 - 02:51 PM (#2744322) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Herga Kitty Nutty - thanks for the update, though I was also greatly saddened to read it. All best wishes from Derek and me when you see her next. Kitty |
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12 Oct 09 - 02:54 PM (#2744327) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,surreysinger Thanks for the update Nutty. Please pass on my love and best wishes if you are in contact with her. Irene |
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12 Oct 09 - 03:42 PM (#2744359) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: George Papavgeris Thank you Hazel. Tell her that she is loved and is remembered fondly. |
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12 Oct 09 - 05:47 PM (#2744448) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,Ebbie, at the Library again Theresa has been on my mind a lot too. This last weekend I played - and replayed - the Firm Friends CD she recorded. The energy, talent and good spirits that Theresa displays will never be lost- we just can't hear it. {{{{{hug}}}}} Eb |
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12 Oct 09 - 05:57 PM (#2744458) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Zany Mouse It seems impossible that this big voice has been silenced. Life can be cruel at times and Theresa has had more than her fair share. Love and calming, positive thoughts. Rhiannon and Mick |
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12 Oct 09 - 07:59 PM (#2744540) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Tyke Big Hugs from me Theresa. George X |
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12 Oct 09 - 08:09 PM (#2744548) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: ranger1 Big hugs from Maine. I only met her once at my first Getaway in 2005, but she made a huge impression. |
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12 Oct 09 - 08:38 PM (#2744560) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Richard Atkins Hazel thank you for the update thats made me fall to bits just now. Teresa so special to me over many years and her advice made me sing at The Getaway. My mother was a recluse so twenty years of recording was enjoyed by us . Teresas voice will never be lost for me and maybe others? |
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13 Oct 09 - 05:21 PM (#2745278) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: The Admiral Thank you Hazel for the update. Our thoughts are always with her, and we find it almost unbearable to think of Theresa not being able to use that amazing voice. Hugs to both of you Pearl & Tony |
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13 Oct 09 - 05:52 PM (#2745304) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,flatnote Deeply affected and saddened by your news Hazel. We first met Theresa when she was running the singaround in the Black Swan at Sidmouth FF, long ago, and she has been a constant source of inspiration ever since. We still hold a hope for a miraculous recovery. Much love. Martin and Margaret. |
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13 Oct 09 - 06:01 PM (#2745317) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Menolly Thank you for letting us all know. Theresa is ever in my thoughts and prayers. All my love to you, Theresa. Gillian |
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13 Oct 09 - 06:09 PM (#2745332) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: MoorleyMan Thanks for the updates, Hazel. I can only add my own heartfelt sympathy and prayers. I so miss you Theresa. Here's my very best wishes, love and (cautiously gentle!) hugs. |
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13 Oct 09 - 07:17 PM (#2745376) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Gillie Sad news indeed Hazel and thanks to you for the update. I'm sure as all of us wil, remember Theresa for the vibrant and strong lady that we know her to be. Life can be cruel in so many ways. I hope and pray that she may find some peace, and know that when she comes back she will be stronger for it. Theresa we all love you and our lifes are richer for having known you. Thank you your indomitable spirit, which is i'm sure still there, it will live on in our hearts. |
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13 Oct 09 - 09:10 PM (#2745423) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,Dani Thank you. I do think of you often, Theresa, and wish good for you. For what it's worth, from far away. Dani |
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14 Oct 09 - 10:12 AM (#2745529) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,padgett on lap top I am truly sorry that it has come to this Theresa We will all meet again and wont the rafters roar!! Bfn xxx Ray |
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14 Oct 09 - 10:45 AM (#2745573) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,MOIRA(FLYING CAT) We both are sorry to hear the news. Also hoping Theresa finds peace in whatever form it takes for her. Give her our love, Moira and Malc. (((xxx))) |
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04 Nov 09 - 10:55 AM (#2759402) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,SussexCarole I'm here with Theresa today. She thanks you all for your thoughts and wishes and has many fond memories of you all. Theresa sends her love to you all. |
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04 Nov 09 - 11:14 AM (#2759419) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Bill D ...and we can feel it all the way across the pond. I'm glad she has good friends there to help out and remind her how we miss her. Such lovely memories from the Getaway. Thanks for posting, Carole... *big smile* |
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04 Nov 09 - 11:14 AM (#2759420) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Severn Best wishes and memories to a Great Lady and a real treasure from here in Maryland. |
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04 Nov 09 - 11:24 AM (#2759428) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Big Mick I am smiling at the thought of this wee lass, with the big voice. She is one of those people who change the air pressure in a room, just by walking in. Please pass on to her that Big Mick thinks of her often and fondly. It is quite a testament to the grand lady she is that wherever she trod, the path is crowded with friends. As to her condition, it is a vile thing, and I detest it. There is something wrong in the world when one who brings such joy to others is laid low with this. All the best, Mick |
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04 Nov 09 - 12:10 PM (#2759466) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Barb'ry Lots of love, Theresa xxxx |
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04 Nov 09 - 12:35 PM (#2759482) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Mrs.Duck And love from the Ducks also! |
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04 Nov 09 - 01:29 PM (#2759537) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: SINSULL Mick nails it. Theresa fills a room with her presence. She radiates a love for her music. You are always in my thoughts and prayers, lady. Mary |
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04 Nov 09 - 03:49 PM (#2759635) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Peter Kasin I am so saddened to read this. I met her at the Capt. Cook sea music festival in '01 and loved her great spirit. I hope she does not have to suffer this much longer. Chanteyranger |
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04 Nov 09 - 04:33 PM (#2759673) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: vectis I don't know if you are a christian Theresa but prayers are being said for you in a cathedral; I always like to go to the top when possible. (((((((((((((((((((((Theresa))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Mary |
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04 Nov 09 - 06:04 PM (#2759732) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Aeola Lots of love and hugs Theresa. You are inspirational. |
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04 Nov 09 - 06:27 PM (#2759747) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Richard Atkins Teresas voice will never be taken from us. I mentioned 20 yrs of recordings to Nutty, perhaps others have more to add to ? Teresa your voice will live for ever. All Love Richard and Hils. |
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05 Nov 09 - 06:44 AM (#2759997) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,RWJ Theresa your songs and preasence give a lot of us the greatest pleasure. Ron |
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05 Nov 09 - 07:11 AM (#2760011) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Janie Thinking of you, Theresa. Janie |
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05 Nov 09 - 07:26 AM (#2760019) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST Always a source of support and inspiration, Thinking of you Theresa. BobH (and Helen) |
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05 Nov 09 - 06:48 PM (#2760462) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: folk1e It's hard to know what to do (or say) for the best here. I often think of Theresa but am unsure weather she would apreciate a visit, or weather that would cause her more unease, or even if she reads this! Regardless, I wish her well!! |
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06 Nov 09 - 05:41 AM (#2760669) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: nutty I think the most useful thing at present would be letters and cards which she can read and keep. Anyone wanting her new address can PM me. |
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09 Nov 09 - 08:24 AM (#2762677) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: SINSULL You know, I hate to be irreverent but I can't help picturing Theresa in one of those motorized shopping carts they have at the Christmas Tree Shop. Little tiny grey haired lady bellowing "Get out of my way. Crippled lady coming through." Jacqui and I had the best fun once with one of those. LOL And Tom has taken to using them since he hurt his foot. Great possibilities for an afternoon out. no coffee at the office this morning - that's my excuse and I am sticking to it. SINS |
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09 Nov 09 - 09:50 AM (#2762751) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: SylviaN Sinsull - Don't apologise - irreverence and humour matched with a big heart and a big voice - describes Theresa to me. Sylvia |
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03 Dec 09 - 07:59 AM (#2779421) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: SINSULL I heard from Sussex Carole. She visited Theresa who, true to form, is fighting the good fight. When I grow up I want to be like Theresa. |
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03 Dec 09 - 02:54 PM (#2779864) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Herga Kitty I missed the Mudgather at Bedworth festival last weekend because I was working at another venue, but it was good to hear that there was a phone link to Theresa. All best wishes Kitty |
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03 Dec 09 - 03:35 PM (#2779892) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,North/South Annie Thanks for updates Hazel. Theresa is often on my mind please give her my love and best wishes Annie |
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03 Dec 09 - 04:18 PM (#2779931) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: John MacKenzie Grow up Sins? Nah, not you. Please don't. |
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03 Dec 09 - 05:48 PM (#2779994) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,old girl Thanks for the up date Hazel Theresa is always in our prayers Please give her our love. Rose & Dave xx |
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04 Dec 09 - 09:26 AM (#2780473) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: SINSULL Theresa will appreciate this: An old lady, at 70, decided that it was time to get married again. She put an ad in the local paper that read: HUSBAND WANTED: MUST BE IN MY AGE GROUP (70's), MUST NOT BEAT ME, MUST NOT RUN AROUND ON ME & MUST STILL BE GOOD IN BED!!!!! ALL APPLICANTS PLEASE APPLY IN PERSON. On the second day, she heard the doorbell. Much to her dismay, she opened the door to see a grey-haired gentleman sitting in a wheelchair. He had no arms or legs. The old woman said, 'You're not really asking me to consider you, are you? Just look at you...you have no legs! The old man smiled, 'And therefore, I cannot run around on you!' She snorted, 'You don't have any arms either!' Again, the old man smiled, 'And therefore, I can never beat you!' She raised an eyebrow and asked intently, 'Are you still good in bed???' The old man leaned back, beamed a big smile and said, 'Rang the doorbell, didn't I?' |
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04 Dec 09 - 05:35 PM (#2780878) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,suzi Cool Sins..... lol. x |
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04 Dec 09 - 07:56 PM (#2780989) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: Janie Thanks so much for the update. I have a very poignant memory from a Ramblewood Getaway of KT field recording Theresa, Colin K and me singing "Oil In My Vessel," that I had learned from Joe Thompson. Must have been 2 am or later. I think of you often Theresa, with great fondness. |
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05 Dec 09 - 04:04 AM (#2781144) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,SussexCarole I am returning home today having spent a few days here in Manchester with Theresa. Despite her disabilities Theresa still has her zany sense of humour and sharp mind. I think it best that I start a new thread when I get home....so more later.... |
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05 Dec 09 - 10:57 AM (#2781307) Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley (Treaties) Update From: GUEST,Bryony & Jock We just remember Theresa from many Whittleburys. She told us off for not practising while we were sitting in the horsebox, on duty but with nothing to do. So we started singing with gusto and got a message from Barbara in The Barn to keep it down because we were interfering with the Big Sing!!! T of course had disappeared having got us into trouble!!! We still laugh heartily over this. Loads of love from us Theresa - Jock's PD is nothing in comparison with what you are bearing. XXXXXXXXXXXX
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