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BS: Favourite Compliments

12 Nov 99 - 08:57 AM (#134988)
Subject: Favourite Compliments
From: Patrish(inactive)

I started a thread on insults and I thought this might be a good one to balance things out. So here goes.... You are the chocolate chip in the cookie of my life.


12 Nov 99 - 09:01 AM (#134990)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: JedMarum

I used to tell my youngest son, he was the best Trevor in the house. One day, when he was about 3 years old, after I had just told him this, he said "but I'm the only Trevor in the house."

"Yes," I told him, "but you're still the best one." He grinned from ear to ear.


12 Nov 99 - 09:13 AM (#134995)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Patrish(inactive)

That's lovely Liam, I almost wish I was called Trevor and lived at your house!


12 Nov 99 - 09:17 AM (#134996)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: MMario

one of the compliments going around lately "You are evil!"


12 Nov 99 - 09:20 AM (#134997)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Barbara Shaw

When my son was very little, probably around 2, I used to say things like, "Ooh, I just love your cute little fat face!" One day after picking him up from daycare, we were talking about what happened that day with the other kids. He said there was a new girl, "with a cute little fat face!"


12 Nov 99 - 10:33 AM (#135033)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Patrish(inactive)

I wonder if it easier to insult someone, than give them a compliment? I think that insults stay in your head longer. One compliment I remember receiving, was " Your house is really comfortable because it is so untidy - I don't have to worry about spilling coffee"

I am a bit of a slob............

Patrish


12 Nov 99 - 10:37 AM (#135034)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: kendall

I was once called the reincarnation of H>L> Mencken.


12 Nov 99 - 10:38 AM (#135036)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Patrish(inactive)

Sorry to be thick, but who's that??


12 Nov 99 - 11:35 AM (#135053)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Liz the Squeak

The nicest thing I've heard recently - mainly because I am not built like Marylin Munroe, more like Snuffleupagus -

'I've lusted after you for years', ah, brought a tear to my eye: honest, and to the point.

Must go have a cold shower now....

LTS


12 Nov 99 - 11:36 AM (#135054)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Fortunato

HL Mencken, the Bard of Baltimore, was a writer and humorist. He said: "No one ever lost money by overestimating the stupidity of the American public." Now that's the truth. My favorite quote. I may have folk processed it a bit.


12 Nov 99 - 04:22 PM (#135189)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: kendall

when someone told him that former president Coolidge was dead, he asked "How can they tell?"


12 Nov 99 - 04:28 PM (#135190)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: MMario

Probably the best compliment I ever recieved, was the day a musician asked me who the composer of a song I had just sung for her was, and when told it was "mine" - her reply was "You're shitting me!" - in complete and utter surprise. (Luckily I took it the way she meant it, as she had assumed the composer was a "pro")(but boy was her face red until she explained!)(and I made her explain. Sometimes I am just ornery)


12 Nov 99 - 09:50 PM (#135319)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Caitrin

I heard the H.L. Mencken quote as "No one ever lost money underestimating the taste of the American public." But then, that was from my dad, the man who claims that he makes up "better words" to songs he doesn't know the real words to. The most sincere compliment I was ever given was at a New Year's formal party...a guy looked at me and said "Damn." (With a definite note of appreciation) I felt more secure about my looks than I have before or since. :)


12 Nov 99 - 10:08 PM (#135324)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: catspaw49

I dunno.........If you consider the literal meaning, it can be quite a nice thing for someone to say, "Fuck You!" I mean, you can respond, "Oh really, its so nice of you to offer." A person must love themselves to love others, so "Go Fuck Yourself" can be taken as friendly advice.

Fuck all of you!

Spaw


13 Nov 99 - 05:55 AM (#135394)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: murray@mpce.mq.edu.au

The late Michael Rabin was playing a violin concerto in the Robin Hood Dell (which is (was?) Philadelphias outdoor concert hall. When he finished a man shouted over the applause "You are a regular Heifitz!" Someone else yelled, "You are a regular Michael Rabin". I think that was meant to be a compliment.

A friend of mine is a mathematician who plays the guitar. At a conference he gave a talk. That evening after dinner he played his guitar. One courtly colleague said, "I could tell from your talk that you were a musician." Again, I think that was meant to be a compliment.

Murray


13 Nov 99 - 09:06 AM (#135420)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: paddymac

MY favorite - appropriate for a lady of any age: "You're approaching the full flower of your womanhood".


14 Nov 99 - 05:35 AM (#135834)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: RoyH (Burl)

Kendall, if I were an American I would treasure being likened to H L Mencken. To those who don't know him, read Alistair Cooke on the subject of Mencken. Likewise Studs Terkel. By the way, sorry about Abdul. I came in on the tail end of that thread. Frank Crumit was wonderful though. I'm surprised how few Americans know of him.


14 Nov 99 - 07:41 PM (#136087)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Magpie

My son (then 4 yrs old) and I were lying in the afternoon sun resting. I lay with the sun smack in my eyes, and my son was studying my face. After a while he says: Mamma, you eyes have golden rays in them, just like sunlight!

No one's ever said anything lovelier to me.

Magpie


14 Nov 99 - 07:55 PM (#136094)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Judy Cook

I treasure the compliments that come my way. Two of my favorites:

"When you sing, you sound the same as when you're talking"

"When I think of you, I smile."

(I suppose these were not necessarily MEANT as compliments, but I sure took them as such.)


15 Nov 99 - 04:54 PM (#136476)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Bert

A couple that I treasure.

When I hear your songs I can actually see the places.

And one time I had just finished singing my usual silly stuff (The old Sow Song, and Size doesn't Matter, etc.) and a woman who was listening said "before I sat down the veins in my leg were hurting but I laughed so much that all the pain has gone"


15 Nov 99 - 05:06 PM (#136480)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: sophocleese

When I was a teenager I spent a weekend at the Festival of Friends in Hamilton having a great time. There was a man there also obviously having a great time. We didn't say a single thing to each other but a few days later I was in the bank with my father and the same man walked in. He came up to me and said "Do you know you have the greatest smile!" I blushed and thanked him while my Dad grinned but I remember how wonderful it felt to be told that.


15 Nov 99 - 05:25 PM (#136482)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: BBJfla

I once told Joseph Sobol, the Cittern player from Chicago, "Listening to you play makes me proud to be a human being, just to be of the same species as someone who can produce such indescribable beauty.

He said, "Bruce, you sure know how to deliver a compliment."


16 Nov 99 - 05:21 PM (#136988)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Marion

A statement someone made at the wedding of two of my friends, both musicians:

"When they stop playing, the silence is still Mozart."


17 Nov 99 - 02:22 AM (#137240)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: darkriver

A guy I worked with once told me
"Your wit is dry enough to suck all the moisture out of a turgid camel."

At least I think it was meant as a compliment. . . .

doug


17 Nov 99 - 11:43 AM (#137380)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: emily b

My band sang this past weekend and got quite the compliment. One of our guys heard another guy say he'd rather listen to our band than get laid. Maybe this says more about this guys love life than the band. We sure got a good laugh out of it, though.

Another fan told us that not only would she buy our CD if we had one, but the cd player to play it on. Ah, the ultimate 1990's compliment.

As for me, my favorite thing to hear is "You were missed." Doesn't get any better than that.

Emily


17 Nov 99 - 11:50 AM (#137385)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Roger the skiffler

as of now: A total flake
At least it's a superlative!
I must tell the new guy in the next bed at the Neil Young Center. I think he's Scandinavian, his name label says he's Nil Bymouth.
RtS


17 Nov 99 - 12:49 PM (#137414)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Bert

We visited a friend of ours and, unfortunately, the lasagna she had cooked hadn't turned out at all well. Her daughter tried to console her. "Don't worry Mom, it's fine, just like they serve in the school canteen"
She just had to laugh.


14 Aug 01 - 05:34 AM (#527487)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: GUEST

refresh


14 Aug 01 - 08:25 AM (#527546)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Bat Goddess

Jeri once told me I sounded like The Watersons--all of them, I think. (Or maybe it was Frankie Armstrong; I forget.) Anywho, I TOOK it as a major compliment!

And a friend once told me our house looked like the storage wing of the Smithsonian. I also chose to take that as a compliment! (My theory on housekeeping is that if you have enough cool stuff to look at, nobody notices the house is a mess.)

In a small cemetery in York, Maine there are buried two women, some years apart, but with their markers carved by the same carver. In each case the slate gravestone reads, "She lived desired and died lamented." If that isn't something to aspire to, I don't know what is!

Bat Goddess


14 Aug 01 - 08:35 AM (#527551)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Greyeyes

When I was in my mid twenties a friend with teenage children told me that if her 13 year old son grew up to be anything like me she'd be very proud. Quite discombobulated me.


14 Aug 01 - 08:37 AM (#527552)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Murray MacLeod

Legendary Scottish compliment: "You don't sweat much, for a fat lass, do you?". On second thoughts, it's a Geordie line.

Murray (posted to wrong thread earlier)


14 Aug 01 - 08:50 AM (#527566)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: SINSULL

I recently showed my apartment to a young couple with twin almost-6-year-olds who were a handful. I kept them at bay by promising a look at the kittens and generally enjoying most of what they did. They were cute and funny and bright and the fact they were identical only made them cuter.
When it was time to go, they announced, "Daddy, we don't have to look at any more houses. We want to live here." When Daddy replied that he wasn't sure they could afford it, one turned to me and said "If we don't buy your house, will you be our baby-sitter?" What could be nicer?


14 Aug 01 - 08:53 AM (#527568)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: JedMarum

A few years back my wife was complimented when the young woman at the check-out counter in all earnestness, asked to see her ID (we were buying beer). Our eldest son was old enough to buy beer, at the time!


14 Aug 01 - 09:04 AM (#527579)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Ringer

I'm being picky, I know, Kendal, but wasn't the "How can they tell?" crack by Dorothy Parker?


14 Aug 01 - 01:05 PM (#527790)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: SINSULL

Last year I was proofed by a new clerk at the local supermarket. The manager was furious with him but I was thrilled. I had a son who was old enough to buy beer!


14 Aug 01 - 01:19 PM (#527801)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Deni

I caught my niece Naomi looking at me with a big soppy grin on her face. 'Whassup', I said. She replied, 'I really like you Auntie Denise.' Well of course I was somewhat chuffed, so I said, archly, 'Oh, why is that then? (Was it going to be beautiful, clever, kind?)

She smiled dreamily,

'You've got such lovely dangly earrings...'


14 Aug 01 - 01:53 PM (#527842)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Kim C

I think it's a compliment when people say my songs make them cry... isn't it?


14 Aug 01 - 02:13 PM (#527871)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Jack the Sailor

Open Mike compliments... Play another please, twice I've been asked to do four when most folk only were allowed three.

"You sound like Roy Orbison" It was one of MY songs Wow!! how do you respond to that??

And the best one. A friend overheard another musician say I reminded him of Tom Paxton. This was soon after I had started writing songs. So then I had to go find out who Tom Paxton is. When I realized that Tom had written some of my favourite songs (Bottle of Wine, Marvelous Toy, The Last Thing on My Mind) then I was really impressed. That one compliment caused me to really enjoy the craft of songwriting. I bought books, better guitars, sought collaborators, joined discussion groups like this etc. largely ss a result of that compliment.


14 Aug 01 - 02:16 PM (#527875)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Sorcha

"We really enjoyed your music. Thanks for playing."


14 Aug 01 - 02:22 PM (#527880)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: GUEST,Celtic Soul

I think I like 'em all! :D

But, if I had to choose, it would be any from my little girl, especially when she says I'm the best Mom in the world (not that she has all that much to compare me with).

How about best backhanded compliment?

:::Sheepishly:::

My (then) honey once said, "Your as good as a $5,000.00 a night call girl".

My response: "Thanks? I think? And how would *you* know, anyway????"


14 Aug 01 - 03:28 PM (#527948)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Matt Woodbury/Mimosa

"Your music started healing in me"


14 Aug 01 - 04:00 PM (#527975)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: katlaughing

Daughter to her biological father after not seeing him since she was a baby: "Actually I turned out to look a lot like mom." And, she didn't mean it in a nasty way, to either of us!


14 Aug 01 - 04:09 PM (#527993)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Justa Picker

"You must be half idiot and half genius."


14 Aug 01 - 04:24 PM (#528009)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Jack the Sailor

Also at open mike.

Folks who shut up for a minute and listen!!


14 Aug 01 - 04:47 PM (#528028)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Hawker

For me it was "That was a Really great song" (told me by a really great singer about one of my own!)
Lucy


14 Aug 01 - 04:56 PM (#528040)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Midchuck

I go with Sorcha (see several posts up).

Peter.

Also: "Are you really a lawyer? You seem so nice!"


14 Aug 01 - 04:57 PM (#528041)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Allan C.

Here's a related thread. A portion of my post to it needs updating; but I'll just let it alone.


14 Aug 01 - 05:03 PM (#528048)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: GUEST

Bald Eagle,

Yes, the Coolidge comment was made by my idol, Dorothy Parker (do you mind?)

"This is not a novel to be tossed aside lightly. It should be thrown aside with great force."


14 Aug 01 - 05:11 PM (#528056)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: catspaw49

Dammit there Grannie Sins.....that one kinda' got me............

Spaw


14 Aug 01 - 07:43 PM (#528189)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Charcloth

my favorite compliment was a non verbal one. I was at an old folks home some old fellow was sitting in a wheel chair & hooked up to oxygen asked me to do some hoe down number. Which I did & frailed away on me banjo. This old guy took the Oxygen out of his nose got up out of his wheel chair & clogged! I will never forget that! Charcloth


14 Aug 01 - 08:42 PM (#528214)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

well, it was near summer solstice, in the circle of the Rollright Stones...after the evening's festivities wound down (the ritual, the band), a few people sat around the fire and some of us sang some songs...I was the lone American in th ebunch but it did not seem to matter. Full moon, starry sky.

One guy sang some respectable Neil Finn covers, one guy sang some GREAT pagan originals, etc. I sang a song in Gaelic, a cappella. And a lovely young man who I sort of had my eye on said, afterwards, "Your voice is like Irish Cream pouring over ice."

Yep, he got lucky that night.


14 Aug 01 - 09:56 PM (#528251)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: SINSULL

Grannie SINS is not high on the compliment list, Spaw. You really are rattling my chains these days. And those damn kittens have taken up residence in the box spring under my mattress. Invariably, about 3AM, one of them gets his little claws caught and gets stuck hanging by a few threads and screaming. Mom just looks at me stupidly as if to say "Do something!" If she only knew what I have in mind!


14 Aug 01 - 10:14 PM (#528264)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: catspaw49

Geez...I'm in the doghouse now...........I just thought it was really sweet..........But let me say here and now that I think you're really a "hottie" to quote our old friend Matt. My gawd, you don't look a day over 60.....uh, 50.........er, make that 40.............no, lessee........27.... yeah, that's it.......27!!!

Besides, how could my kids think of you as a grannie when I'm..............uh, er...............well.............wait, got it..........27.......yeah, that'll work ........When I'm 27 too!!

This isn't going well........................

Luvya???

Spaw


14 Aug 01 - 10:52 PM (#528299)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Sorcha

Charcloth, good one. That reminds me of the Nursing Home gigs----we had a fellow who was 100+--the last survivor in this county of WWI. He was wheelchair bound, but still had "all his marbles" and my, how his blue eyes would twinkle.

Found out after quite a few "perfs" at the nursing home that he had been a player in a dance band after The War. My god, his daughter is 80+..........he died just this last November at 102. I still miss him. He did recieve the French Legion of Honor before he died from the French Ambassador---yea, right here in lil ole' Wyoming.

I will always miss you, Ed Reddifer. Your Obit should read

Still Sexy at 102


15 Aug 01 - 12:18 AM (#528347)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Charcloth

Sorcha, I have found that I get to meet some really neat people at nursing homes Charcloth


15 Aug 01 - 11:28 AM (#528492)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Gypsy

Spaw, yer an ambitious laddie, you are! ALL? Best comp for me was the recorded artist who wanted one of MY cds!


15 Aug 01 - 02:38 PM (#528678)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: SharonA

"Your songs sound like something I'd expect to hear on Broadway." I get that one a LOT. Ya think it means anything?

The BEST one I ever got was from a high-school friend, written to me in my yearbook (before I'd EVER picked up a guitar, much less written a song): "You're a Cole Porter in a rock-and-roll world."


15 Aug 01 - 03:27 PM (#528732)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Justa Picker

I'm reminded of a story told to me by a comedian friend of mine who claimed he did a show at a Monastery, and following the show, one of the monks approached him and breaking a 30 year vow of silence stated "you suck."


15 Aug 01 - 11:10 PM (#528967)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Thomas the Rhymer

So, a... Peg? ...did you get lucky that night?

Is it a compliment when you sing a love song you just wrote, and all the jealousy-guys with their dates jabble you after the show?
Is it a compliment when everyone in the room seems to have a completely different revelation to a song you never quite knew the meaning of... (and You wrote it!)
I think the grandest compliment ever is that painful silence that lasts a little too long........ before the applause.
But my favorite one of all, is when the majority of the audience is sitting, smiling faintly, with closed eyes, and a room full of delicious enraptured wonder faces me with the stillness of a misty verdant impressionist landscape...

And to think I owe it all to a vivid dream world...ttr


15 Aug 01 - 11:34 PM (#528977)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

Thomas; yes!

Nice description of all those varied silences and sounds which exemplify appreciation from an audience...


16 Aug 01 - 03:50 PM (#529554)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Thomas the Rhymer

Great Peg, just wondering...

Keep up the good work, and BTW, I'd love to hear you sing! What are your favorite songs? See Ya, ttr


16 Aug 01 - 08:36 PM (#529765)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: guinnesschik

I got the best compliment ever last weekend. A couple was watching us play and enjoying themselves immensely. At break, when I went over to greet them, I was told that our band was the first Celtic music they'd really listened to, and it had sent them on an odyssey to find and listen to as much as they possibly could. Then the lady says to me, "And you're still our favorite band!" I had permagrin for hours.


16 Aug 01 - 08:41 PM (#529769)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

very cool Guinnesschik!

Thomas; I mostly stick to traditional old ballads fromt he celtic countries; I like to sing in Irish and Gaelic, too. Mostly the sad, heartbreaking ones where everything goes bad; not many happy songs in this genre...


16 Aug 01 - 08:42 PM (#529770)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Armen Tanzerian

1. Sharwood's Chutney Sauce
2. Mayonnaise
3. Tiger Sauce
4. H-P sauce
5. Ketchup


17 Aug 01 - 03:55 AM (#529957)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Deni

Picked up two new words from this thread, permagrin and jabble. But Thomas the R what on earth does Jabble mean, exactly.

Deni


17 Aug 01 - 04:04 AM (#529958)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Lee Shore

H.L. Mencken's greatest: "We must always respect the other fellow's religion, but only in the sense that we must respect his opinion that his wife is beautiful and his children are smart." To be compared to the Bard of Baltimore is indeed a great compliment.


17 Aug 01 - 11:43 AM (#530179)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: GUEST,Rich (bodhránai gan cookie )

I'm writing from a friend's computer in Chicago, hence no cookie.(I'm a guest here, too)

How about "I enjoyed your playing." or "I enjoyed playing with you."

None of this "Oh my God, you are sooooo fabulous" garbage. Musicians who want those kind of compliments, really oughta be in another type of music.

My $0.02,

Rich


17 Aug 01 - 12:04 PM (#530194)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

good point Rich, but I do enjoy hearing "Ooooh, you're SOOOO fabulous on occasion!!!"

Peg


17 Aug 01 - 12:06 PM (#530197)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

"Ooooh, you're SOOOO fabulous on occasion!!!"

Did I type that out loud?

Of course I meant to move the quote marks to read: "Ooooh, you're so fabulous!" on occasion...

Then again there is much truth and verity on the first example, I suppose...

Peg, feeling a bit stupid now


17 Aug 01 - 12:15 PM (#530206)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: GUEST,Denise:^)

I think my favorite was the guy who came up to me after I finished singing, and said, "I can tell YOU'VE never had any voice training!" He then proceeded to turn beet red, and stammer and mumble about "what he'd really meant was..."

I assured him that I understood what he'd meant, but I couldn't help laughing at the fix he'd gotten himself into!

Denise:^)


17 Aug 01 - 08:08 PM (#530527)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Thomas the Rhymer

Hey Deni, the term 'jabble' is a word that I made up for that thread, right then... and it meant/means "the scorpion-like quality of a conversation that is undertaken with the sole purpose of delivering put-downs and back-handed compliments to the intended victim. I was at a loss for words, and this little pseudo-word popped up...

"you WROTE that?
"Nice song!"
"Do you have a day job, or is this all you do?"
"Do you have a CD?"
"That is the best version of that (trad) song I have ever heard"

...in my dreams...ttr


18 Aug 01 - 04:49 PM (#530874)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Don Firth

Walt Robertson had a friend named Cletus Otis Oakes (signed his name "CO2") who got married sometime back in the late Forties or early Fifties. John Lomax had known both the bride and the groom for years, and he came to the wedding. In the reception line after the wedding, Lomax looked the bride and groom over carefully, then said, "Well . . . you both could've done better!"

Don Firth


18 Aug 01 - 04:56 PM (#530875)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Don Firth

Just remembered another one.

Jean Redpath once said (after years of singing concerts and making recordings) that after a concert a woman said to her, "You have such a lovely voice! Have you ever thought of doing something with it?"

Don Firth


18 Aug 01 - 05:56 PM (#530890)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: MichaelM

By a Restoration author whose name escapes me "Come into the garden; I should like my roses to see you."


18 Aug 01 - 11:43 PM (#530973)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Bert

And then there's the time you see someone quietly wiping away a tear.


19 Aug 01 - 11:00 PM (#531532)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: GUEST,Member Temporarily Nameless

OK I give up, I'll tell, tho you would probably not believe it if I used my Mudcat name to tell you.

Lying on a mattress under a sklylight in the attic of a Boston brownstone, years ago, I heard the following:

"You" (huff huff) "are" (puff puff) "such" (HUFF) "a" (HUFF) "great" (PUFF!) "F***!!!!" (HUFFPUFFHUFFPUFF!!!)

*G*

Well, I am!

*G*


20 Aug 01 - 12:56 AM (#531586)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

isn't this supposed to be about musical compliments?


20 Aug 01 - 01:29 AM (#531598)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Thomas the Rhymer

Sadly,... yes.


20 Aug 01 - 02:23 AM (#531609)
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From: wysiwyg

Where does it say THAT?? Read the first posts!

~Susan


20 Aug 01 - 02:57 AM (#531617)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Thomas the Rhymer

I'm not exactly a prude; but really
Talk of pillow'd talk is chilly
Count the times love has been sworn
And luridized with clothes unworn

And yet the morning comes too soon
With trophies won, a different tune
Lust is fun, but loving; kind
To romance, lust might not remind

Anyhow, who when and if't
What's said at climax is a gift
But sharing such and such for measure
Brings me sadness; little pleasure...


20 Aug 01 - 11:03 AM (#531773)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

ah, yes, it was about general compliments, you're right. Still, kind of crude, self-indulgent post from the temporarily nameless one...


21 Aug 01 - 01:00 AM (#532227)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Art Thieme

Utah Phillips once introduced me as "the man who did for folk music what pantyhose did for sex"

But here is my actual favorite...

A fellow came up to me in a bar in Madison, Wisconsin and told me that a song I'd put on my first LP, Don Lange's "Here's To You Rounders", saved his marriage.

Art Thieme


21 Aug 01 - 01:04 AM (#532230)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Peg

great quote from Utah, Art! (though I am trying to figure out what it means, exactly)


21 Aug 01 - 11:30 AM (#532482)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Jack the Sailor

Both the best and worst compliment I have ever heard about.

Chet Atkins was on a cruise ship. Someone asks him what he does. He says he plays guitar. He plays a tune or two for the guy who says "You are good but you are no Chet Atkins."


21 Aug 01 - 11:42 AM (#532490)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: KingBrilliant

When filling out one of those aweful internet questionaire things one of the questions was 'say something nice about the person who sent you this'. My sister said I was a 'Joy Bringer'. I was really touched, and she told me that she had always thought of me that way since we were kids. Ah - innit sweet.
Judith has lived in Japan for the last 17 years and I'm in UK so we don't often meet. It was just so nice for her to say such a lovely thing. Its my secret cheer-up tool now whenever I am feeling particularly crap.
I felt a bit of a git though, as I hadn't said anything nearly as nice about her.....

As far as musical compliments go - some people we were passing the night with with on a festival campsite asked me to send them a tape. I was really embarassed. Gave me a real lift though..
Someone else said he'd buy my CD to play to his friends. When I said I don't have one, he just said he was sure I would have one day & he could wait.
Mark reckons people are just being nice when they say things like that. Hmm - I like nice people. I wish I was as nice.

Kris


21 Aug 01 - 12:13 PM (#532506)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Diva

This was a compliment from my now ex husband.... "I like you, you're plain" and he really could'nt understand why I wasn't thrilled. The nicest compliment about my singing was from a friend who is a singer of some acclaim and he said I was an inutuitve singer... now that I WAS thrilled with.

Diva


21 Aug 01 - 12:16 PM (#532508)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Diva

hehehe...... intuitive

Diva


21 Aug 01 - 12:22 PM (#532512)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Greenbean

When I was four, the crazy neighbor lady (who used to yell at her grown bachelor son all day long--one of my earliest memories is the phrase "Gottdamm you, Willie!" wafting down the road to our house) toddled by as I was sitting on the fence and told my mom "You know, she's smarter than she looks!"

A week ago, a friend's mom was visiting as my Celtic/Bluegrass band practiced and told me afterwards, "You've got a great voice! You should work at Disneyworld!" I knew she meant well. I think.

I seem to attract what I like to think of as the "humbling compliment."


22 Aug 01 - 05:51 AM (#533074)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Knappo

"Hey,you guys don't suck". A co-worker of mine after seeing our trio for the first time.

Also, a lady of about 80 with Alzhimers stood and "danced" about a foot away, staring at me while I sang a couple of tunes and fought off anyone who attempted to move her back a little bit. She had the biggest smile after that.

Knappo


22 Aug 01 - 02:36 PM (#533400)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: Diva

Ohhh I've just had one......on telling a friend I was wearing my new mudcat tee shirt,I was told "I bet you fill it well" BLUSH


22 Aug 01 - 03:08 PM (#533432)
Subject: RE: BS: Favourite Compliments
From: GUEST

"I meant to tell you at the time, I felt a lot better after we last talked."