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04 Nov 02 - 03:26 AM (#817942) Subject: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick My friend has just told me that her partner always kisses her with his eyes open, and should it mean anything, she always kisses him with her shut (through she must have peeked to have seen) Well i was always told when i was muchhhhhh younger (can't remember who by) that if he kissed with his eyes open he properly didn't really mean it, no passion, so come on you men mudcatters, what does it mean, if anything,if you have any thoughts on this enlighten me for what it's worth! |
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04 Nov 02 - 09:58 AM (#817955) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Amos IT has no inherent meaning -- sometimes kissing while gazing into another's eyes doubles the fun! But it could mean he was staying aloof, not drawn into the moment fully, still calculating. It's not something to be read out of context, though. A |
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04 Nov 02 - 10:05 AM (#817964) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick This really is a load of BS but I thought it may come up with some interesting answers, also I am really bored at work today, having been unable to log on to the site until now, problems, not my end! I like the idea of still calculating, sound better than no passion, bit of mystery is good. |
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04 Nov 02 - 10:12 AM (#817978) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Mr Red I never look. I hate to see a woman suffer. |
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04 Nov 02 - 10:32 AM (#817995) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST,Fred Miller Maybe they are catching each other checking to see if the other's eyes are open, and he is somewhere asking what it means that she keeps peeking to see if his eyes are open. My own eyes are open, usually, and not just for kissing. Though I've been kissing my wife for 22 years she still hasn't figured out I don't really mean it, I guess. What does a kiss mean that one doesn't mean when they don't really mean it? You must remember this, a kiss is just a kiss. I confessed once that sometimes when we're together she's her, sometimes she's just a woman I'm happy to sleep with. She said That's all right--a very good answer, I thought. |
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04 Nov 02 - 10:45 AM (#818010) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Bobert Depends on what you're kissin'. Jus Funnin... I, personally, like to do a little mix and match, just to keep things interesting. Bobert |
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04 Nov 02 - 10:48 AM (#818014) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Naemanson Sometimes I close my eyes to more fully savor the sensation. Sometimes I like to look into her eyes to more fully savor the sensation. Either way I like to give myself fully into the kiss. I've been told I do it well. Any ladies out there like to be an impartial judge? |
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04 Nov 02 - 10:51 AM (#818019) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Amos I think we ought to apply some scientific method to this, Naemanson. I volunteer to be the control group. A |
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04 Nov 02 - 10:57 AM (#818029) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Dave Bryant Rock Chick - if it's Dipsodeb that you're talking about, I can see why she does it ! Only joking - Pat's much bigger than me ! |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:13 AM (#818053) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Mooh There's no way I can focus on anything that close to my face so my eyes hurt if I open them and actually try to see anything. Besides I know what she looks like after 20 years...and why would she want to see me? Mooh. |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:20 AM (#818064) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Naemanson OK, this experiment is shaping up pretty well. Amos is the control. Now, can we get a grant to pay for our travel to the various volinteer Mud-Women who wish to participate? |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:22 AM (#818070) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Naemanson That's volUnteer. Amos, you better write up the hypothesis and results. Actually I haven't seen a rush of volunteers for this. Should I be crushed by the silence or have I not given it enough time? |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:26 AM (#818080) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Catherine Jayne Depends on whom us mudwomen will be kissing!!!! |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:27 AM (#818081) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick Naughty, naughty I thinks, and your wrong it's none of my folkie friends, and yes, he is MUCH bigger than you, you had better buy him a bottle or two of newcastle brown now! no I thinks three and Dipspdeb a large V and T, mines the same. |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:31 AM (#818084) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Amos Well, see, the guy volunteers get sample groups to kiss, and then all the sample groups ALSO kiss the control group -- that's me -- and then the results are mopped up off the floor and analyzed... And, rock chick, while I would be happy to buy a round any time, I should remind you that in scientific experiments, size doesn't matter.... LOL! A |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:39 AM (#818090) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick catsPHiddle totally agree with you |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:43 AM (#818094) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: bflat I suggest that the lack of volunteers has more to do with women choosing not to be a "kiss and tell" subject. But for myself in the interest of a scientific study with a control group and all, I would be willing to enter my name in a study to determine the eye position of the orbicularis oculi during the juxtaposition of two orbicularis oris in the state of contraction. Ellen |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:44 AM (#818095) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: 53 eyes closed |
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04 Nov 02 - 11:49 AM (#818102) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Dave Bryant catsPHiddle - the only reason that I'd close my eyes when kissing you is that I'd have to stand on something to reach your gorgeous lips - and I'd be afraid to look down. |
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04 Nov 02 - 01:27 PM (#818215) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: the lemonade lady I sing with my eyes open and I kiss with 'em shut. That's when I really do like to concentrate. Mooowaaah (((X))) |
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04 Nov 02 - 03:02 PM (#818298) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Catherine Jayne Aww bless Dave........don't tell Linda....or Micca!!!! Cat.... |
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04 Nov 02 - 03:21 PM (#818315) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Clinton Hammond One eye open, one eye closed... that way it makes her laugh when she 'peeks' LOL |
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04 Nov 02 - 03:51 PM (#818339) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: DADGBE My sweetie and I usually kiss with our flys open. Oh, oops, I thought you were talking about... pardon me! |
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04 Nov 02 - 04:51 PM (#818403) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: bernil If I close my eyes I can sometimes become unconcentrated but when I look into his eyes - wow! But we've only been together (this time) for about eight months or so, so it's still very exciting to look at him! /B |
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04 Nov 02 - 05:32 PM (#818445) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Little Hawk I think eyes closed is generally the better way to go, but there can be occasional exceptions to that. Kissing, when both people really mean it, is probably the most intimate and sensual act possible, in my opinion (I remember a few incidents that just about fused all my nerve endings permanently....). - LH |
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04 Nov 02 - 09:16 PM (#818610) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Peg aw, eyes closed! have ye no romance in ye? Peg (best kisser on the planet) |
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04 Nov 02 - 09:26 PM (#818617) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Amos That's a claim that needs validation, Peg O' Me Heart!! Can't have no pseudo-science here on the Cat can we??? LOL!! A |
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05 Nov 02 - 01:03 AM (#818734) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Little Hawk Yeah, well, you've got some heavy competition out there, Peg! But it's always nice to see someone with a healthy amount of self-confidence, I'll say that. - LH |
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05 Nov 02 - 03:21 AM (#818791) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST,Boab Last time I kissed a lassie in the cinema I definitely kept my eyes open; didn't want to miss Gene Autrey------ |
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05 Nov 02 - 04:37 AM (#818829) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Dave Bryant Does that mean that you haven't kissed a girl since then or just haven't been to the cinema with one ? |
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05 Nov 02 - 08:24 AM (#818931) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: alanww Kissing, either gently or passionately, is such a wonderful thing that sometimes I have them open my eyes just to check that I'm not dreaming! "And they kissed so sweet and comforting ...!" Alan |
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05 Nov 02 - 12:01 PM (#819077) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: mousethief I do everything with my eyes closed. Sing, kiss, drive... Alex |
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05 Nov 02 - 12:31 PM (#819112) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: smallpiper eye's closed and I'm in competition with peg for the title she wrongly claims! |
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05 Nov 02 - 12:48 PM (#819130) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Catherine Jayne Hey.....I think we are going to have to set the record straight on the best kisser front...as I also hold that title!!!!...... Cat |
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05 Nov 02 - 01:56 PM (#819172) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick I still have the certificate, cup etc just to put the record straight folks. It's all about savouring the moment, lingering in pleasure, drifting into the dreams, then thinking oh s... I forgot I had garlic in my lunch!! |
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05 Nov 02 - 02:28 PM (#819202) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick Amos, size! You have been doing too many scientific experiment's it's made your head a bit dizzy rc |
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03 Dec 02 - 04:15 PM (#839870) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: the lemonade lady More more more! |
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03 Dec 02 - 11:28 PM (#840090) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST,Walking Eagle I'd just be happy to have a feller to kiss! Too many nights wonderin' 'why not me?' |
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04 Dec 02 - 08:31 AM (#840296) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Sonnet My cats always have their eyes open when they give me a kiss!!! Jay |
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04 Dec 02 - 12:42 PM (#840540) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Mrs.Duck Singing or kissing eyes closed mouth open!! |
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04 Dec 02 - 05:00 PM (#840773) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: mytoycar I always kiss with my eyes closed with some of the things I pull I dont think it would be a very nice sight |
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04 Dec 02 - 06:58 PM (#840859) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Amos Well, as soon as your eyesa are open, the FIRST thing you'll see to do is run out and order MUDCAT CD's FROM CAMSCO MUSIC!!! Yowzah!!! An EYE-OPENING EXPERIENCE, and I'll throw in the kiss for free!! A |
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23 Jan 03 - 05:35 AM (#872682) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: the lemonade lady I think this thread is so exciting, I want more! Sal |
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23 Jan 03 - 08:48 AM (#872765) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST,Plain Jane More what? o you mean kissing, get in the que ;o)) |
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23 Jan 03 - 04:49 PM (#873196) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Schantieman Or is it ;o() ? |
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23 Jan 03 - 06:36 PM (#873280) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST,Taunus A jesuit priest once tolds us (we were 12) that you can see the Virgin Mary's face weeping in the face of the girl that you kiss wihout loving her... Taunus. |
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23 Jan 03 - 06:56 PM (#873307) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Cluin Huh? Nothing like freaking out the kids, eh? Was he speaking from experience? Well, I've had an eye-opener or two while kissing. But I've learned to keep them closed whilst kissing other lips. Saves getting a thumb in the eye at an inopportune moment. |
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24 Jan 03 - 08:10 AM (#873675) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick Think i will be a lot wiser on this subject quite soon! ;o) not that i will be telling though :ox |
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24 Jan 03 - 08:20 AM (#873689) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST,Geoff Wright I only keep my eyes open when kissing in the dark |
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24 Jan 03 - 08:24 AM (#873692) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Dave the Gnome Kissing is for Cissies... I'd rather play cowboys anyday. DtG |
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24 Jan 03 - 10:10 AM (#873776) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Catherine Jayne Well I suppose the next qustion will be...with or without tongues??!!!!....sorry for lowering the tone! cat |
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24 Jan 03 - 11:11 AM (#873819) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Schantieman Well, THAT depends! B-(q) S |
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24 Jan 03 - 11:14 AM (#873823) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Schantieman ...and what about glasses on or off? I have a female friend (very platonic!) and we both wear glasses. When we kiss hello or goodbye (this is her idea, I kid you not) we pucker up our lips and our lips meet about an inch in front of our faces. This saves clashing glasses. Usually, we can't do it for laughing! Steve |
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24 Jan 03 - 01:33 PM (#873945) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick KatsPHiddle , Lowering the tone i don't think so.Tonuges! yummie so Sensuous, must stop the thought right now or i'll get carried away and i'm on my own. ;o( |
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25 Jan 03 - 08:50 AM (#874542) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: the lemonade lady #B-p |
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25 Jan 03 - 11:23 AM (#874656) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST #B-p ? what does this mean please Mrs Lemon |
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25 Jan 03 - 11:52 AM (#874674) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Nigel Parsons Eyes open at least means you aren't daydreaming that you're kissing a different partner! Nigel |
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25 Jan 03 - 12:16 PM (#874688) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: *daylia* This reminds me of how we used to play 'Spin the Bottle' when we were pre-teens. We'd brace ourselves, lips tightly sealed, eyes wide open, then clamp faces together and press each others teeth in while we held our breath. The contest was to see who could hold that posture the longest - which really meant who could hold their breath the longest! And tongues? Unheard of - yuk yuk YUK!!! - from a child's point of view anyway. Now this was back in the late 60's/early 70's, and kids are alot more worldly these days. I've even heard 7-year-olds discussing the mechanics of oral sex waiting for the school bus! As for me, I don't get into the kissing thing much these days. Too 'expensive', and I find music much more satisfying anyway ... don't hafta clean up after it or explain to it where you're going ... or worry about hurting it's feelings when you've had enough and turn it off ... don't hafta shower when it's over ... or take antibiotics/spend decades of your life looking after it's 'products' ... Hmmmm do I sound like a cynical old crone or WHAT! Better go polish my false teeth now he he he ... :-) daylia |
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28 Jan 03 - 10:28 AM (#876583) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: rock chick Well I got to say a bit of both, with them closed to saviour the moment then just open them to remind you that the person is real. Mummmmmmmmmmmm then closed again for some more. :o<> |
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28 Jan 03 - 11:25 AM (#876624) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: the lemonade lady I actually meant #B-q but got confused... it's all the excitement! Sal |
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28 Jan 03 - 11:40 AM (#876636) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: GUEST And pray, O Lemonlady, what does #B-q mean. Is it a reference to a well known British DIY chain or is it a secret code that only Lemons and Schantiemen know. Methinks I know, but wouldn't want to blow any gaffs. Oops! |
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28 Jan 03 - 11:49 AM (#876649) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Schantieman hair, glasses, nose and doing something or other with tongues! (or possibly smoking. Yuk!) (I think) S |
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28 Jan 03 - 12:00 PM (#876657) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Cluin Did you mean #B-P |
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30 Jan 03 - 02:21 PM (#878516) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Noreen So, rock chick, you changed your mind and decided to tell? |
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30 Jan 03 - 02:31 PM (#878523) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Catherine Jayne Well we do have to remember that its best to know the person you are kissing..... Kisses can mean nothing at all but the best ones are shared between two people who care alot about each other and ONLY have Eyes!! for each other! |
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30 Jan 03 - 02:42 PM (#878536) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Noreen Good point, Cats. There's nothing quite like having your eyes shut while kissing then opening eyes to realise you and your partner are looking deep into each others' souls.... An electric moment, not easily forgotten. |
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30 Jan 03 - 03:25 PM (#878568) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: the lemonade lady Oh wow, that sounds SO exciting, Noreen. #;-D |
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30 Jan 03 - 03:59 PM (#878583) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Nemesis I reckon it's always best to go in with eyes wide open: that way you can see if they're looking over your shoulder to see if the grass is greener ! |
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30 Jan 03 - 04:44 PM (#878610) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Allan C. Excellent point, Hille! |
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30 Jan 03 - 04:51 PM (#878618) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: dick greenhaus A slight drift, but related. It's been said that Jewish women always close their eyes during sex because they can't bear seeing their husbands enjoying themselves. |
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30 Jan 03 - 05:00 PM (#878622) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Allan C. Sorta reminds me of what one guy I knew thought about mirrors on the ceiling. He failed to see the sense in needing to look to see if he was enjoying himself. |
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30 Jan 03 - 05:03 PM (#878626) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Allan C. But getting back to the question: I usually kiss with my eyes closed. I truly get lost in the moment that way. But then, as Noreen points out, glancing up to see your lover's eyes looking deep into your own is not without its good points as well. |
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31 Jan 03 - 04:57 AM (#878931) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Trevor Bucket of water for Sal somebody please! |
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31 Jan 03 - 05:27 AM (#878950) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Noreen She's not the only one who needs dousing, Trev- and I don't mean me... :0) |
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31 Jan 03 - 05:43 AM (#878959) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Schantieman ;-D |
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31 Jan 03 - 05:52 AM (#878961) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Noreen Didn't mean you either, come to that, but if the cap fits... (Oo!) |
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31 Jan 03 - 06:52 AM (#878982) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Trevor Hey Noreen - careless talk costs wives! |
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31 Jan 03 - 07:05 AM (#878993) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Schantieman And, as I saw on the workshop wall, careless torque costs money! |
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02 Feb 03 - 07:23 PM (#880950) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Nemesis Noreen: dousing or douching? |
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03 Feb 03 - 08:44 AM (#881248) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Schantieman ;-)))))) |
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03 Feb 03 - 03:07 PM (#881623) Subject: RE: BS: Kissing -Eyes Closed ! Eyes open! From: Genie Juicy thread, here, folks! Day-liah, kissing's "too expensive?" Hmmm... That raises lots of questions about whom you're kissing, where, etc. *G* Eyes open or closed? Personally? ... I forget. On the other hand, your eloquent description [... having your eyes shut while kissing then opening eyes to realise you and your partner are looking deep into each others' souls...] did stir a few smouldering memories, Noreen! (Where's that cold drink?) Now if there's really gonna be a scientific 'spearmint,' I'll sign up -- but I think the trials should be held in the UK, with the female volunteer subjects being flown in, at the expense of the project, for research purposes. Genie (Nobody gets to claim that there title till the data are all in, folks!) |