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11 Mar 07 - 09:25 PM (#1993867) Subject: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall My brother, Daryll is dying of a brain tumor. He is 4+ years older than I and he sort of took the place of our Father who was never around. It will be relatively quick, but not easy to deal with. Some positive thoughts would help. |
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11 Mar 07 - 09:29 PM (#1993868) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Rapparee You got 'em, Kendall. You got 'em. |
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11 Mar 07 - 09:34 PM (#1993874) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: The Fooles Troupe My sympathies - some bits of life are tough. The slow ones can be tougher, but at least you have some time to deal with things - the totally unexpected can leave things unsaid and undone. |
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11 Mar 07 - 09:53 PM (#1993889) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: frogprince Nothing we can say will make it easy. You'll know best, yourself, how to say your goodby to him. I think you're a wiser man than to try not to cry when you need to. Strength and peace to you and your family. Dean. |
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11 Mar 07 - 09:59 PM (#1993893) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: bobad I know it's easy for us to say it but try to keep in mind the cycles of life and death and the naturalness of it all. |
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11 Mar 07 - 10:00 PM (#1993896) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Janie Oh Kendall, I'm so very sorry to hear this. You and your brother are in my thoughts and prayers. xxoo, Janie |
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11 Mar 07 - 10:24 PM (#1993906) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,meself We're with you ... |
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11 Mar 07 - 10:26 PM (#1993907) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Leadfingers Gawd Cap'n - its a Bugger aint it ?? Sympathy mate !! |
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11 Mar 07 - 10:27 PM (#1993908) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: RangerSteve You and he are in my prayers. |
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11 Mar 07 - 10:37 PM (#1993916) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Bee Sorry for your trouble, Kendall. Lost my brother ten years ago, suddenly, only 43 years old, still miss him. Cold comfort, but at least you will be able to say goodbye. |
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11 Mar 07 - 10:56 PM (#1993934) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Little Hawk These crossings are tough to deal with. I wish you the best, and I hope you have all the support you need from friends and family at this time. |
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11 Mar 07 - 11:07 PM (#1993940) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Linda Goodman Zebooker Sorry for your sadness. We think of you often |
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11 Mar 07 - 11:14 PM (#1993944) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Barry Finn I wish I could help to ease things for you but I can't, best wishes. Barry |
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11 Mar 07 - 11:41 PM (#1993947) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: katlaughing Oh, Kendall, that is so sad. May the Great Spirit guide you and Daryll in this journey and bring you much comfort. All of our love and thoughts are with you. Kat & Rog |
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11 Mar 07 - 11:45 PM (#1993949) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Alice It is hard to find words to respond to what you are going through. Take care. People love you. Alice |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:29 AM (#1993960) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Elmer Fudd Sending lots of good thoughts your way, Kendall and Jacqui. Wishing your brother as peaceful and painless a passage as possible. Elmer |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:37 AM (#1993963) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Partridge I've sat here with reply to thread box open for ages, trying to write something, I don't have the words. So sorry Kendall, please know I'm thinking of you and yours. much love Pat xxxxx |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:38 AM (#1993964) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Wordsmith My sympathies. |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:53 AM (#1993966) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Amos I'm with you, Skipper, and Daryl also. Courage. A |
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12 Mar 07 - 02:46 AM (#1993988) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: bfdk Kendall, Kind thoughts and best wishes speeding your way from Denmark. It hurts like hell to have to let go of a close relative like that. Apart from the loss itself, it's like part of your own history goes with them.. A big hug for you, mate, Bente |
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12 Mar 07 - 02:47 AM (#1993989) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: MBSLynne Words don't help much but I'm sending you my thoughts, blessings and a big ((((((((((((((((((kendall)))))))))))))))))))))))))) Love Lynne |
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12 Mar 07 - 03:14 AM (#1993996) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Catherine Jayne Like others here I don't know what to say. You and your family are in my thoughts. (((Kendall))) Khatt |
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12 Mar 07 - 03:24 AM (#1994002) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Sandra in Sydney same here, death is the final taboo. sending good wishes to you & your family love from sandra |
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12 Mar 07 - 03:27 AM (#1994005) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: fat B****rd Best regards from Charlie. |
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12 Mar 07 - 03:37 AM (#1994007) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Hawker Oh Kendall! So sorry to hear this news, Kind and loving thoughts to you and Jacqui, and of course to your brother. A million Mudcat hugs to you all. Much Love, Lucy Burrow |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:04 AM (#1994019) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: gnu Thoughts and prayers. |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:10 AM (#1994020) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Zany Mouse Kendall, I don't know what to say. I hope you have some sort of faith and belief in life after death - if you do, that will help. My main prayer for Darryl is that the pain will be controlled and that your mental pain will be eased by all the love that surrounds you. Positive thoughts from Worksop Luv Rhiannon |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:22 AM (#1994025) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Liz the Squeak Kendall my dear, you know you have our love always, thinking of you and Darryl particularly right now. XX LTS |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:32 AM (#1994034) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: fiddler Kendall - keep thinking positive, remember all those times you have had together, he will always be with you and is part of you. Sadly his body is giving up for whatever reason, we all paass down this route but as a person and a brother he will always be with you and all those his life has touched over the years. Of course my thoughts are with you throughout, don't we all wish it could be different for you, your brother and all of us. Much love form this side of the Atlantic is all I can offer and it is freely and willingly given. andy |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:39 AM (#1994042) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: alanabit Kendall, all the kindness I can send you from this part of the world. |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:45 AM (#1994046) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: skipy All of the above. Skipy |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:46 AM (#1994047) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: John MacKenzie Celebrate his life, and your lives together over the years. When the time comes mourn him, then make sure his life is remembered in a positive way. It's tough, and nothing anybody can say will change that. Commiserations, from Giok. |
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12 Mar 07 - 05:50 AM (#1994075) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: jeffp Kendall, you have my sincere sympathy. It's a terrible disease with no mercy whatsoever. My prayers for you and your family. Jeff |
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12 Mar 07 - 06:00 AM (#1994082) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: bbc Boy, that's a tough one. I'm so sorry to hear. Barbara |
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12 Mar 07 - 06:20 AM (#1994099) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Tinker Ahh Kendall, I'm sitting here and hugging you both. Remember to keep heading towards light. The gifts of your relationship speak lounder than the tersity of your typical Maine description. Hold those gifts tight and accept all of the wonderful things you are to each other -- including I'm sure the occaisional pain in the ass moment (Yeah you Kendall) And when it get's tough -- remember all those ladies Jacqui let's share ;your love... |
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12 Mar 07 - 06:37 AM (#1994116) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Mooh Our hopes and prayers for you all. Peace, Mooh. |
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12 Mar 07 - 06:42 AM (#1994120) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: maeve Kendall- I'm so sorry. It seems your brother's death will in some ways be a double loss. I'm glad that you have so many of us who care about you and Jacqui, and family. You have my friendship and warm thoughts heading your way and prayers to God on your behalf, asking for comfort and strength to see it through. Love, Holly |
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12 Mar 07 - 07:52 AM (#1994177) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST, Bainbo at work Kendall At the moment, this won't come as any consolation to you. Your brother's dying, and you feel horrible. You won't believe me, and this will sound trite now, but in the future you may even be able to draw some positives: 1) You say it will be relatively quick. That's a blessing that's not afforded to all of us. 2) You know it's happening, and when. You have the chance to talk to him, to tell him how you feel, to relive the happy times, to organise, and to come to terms with it. Again, something not all of us get the chance to do. You have a difficult time ahead, but you'll cope. We do, because we have to. Be thankful for the times you've had together. Kind thoughts, John |
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12 Mar 07 - 07:56 AM (#1994182) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: wysiwyg Hardi has that same relationship with his younger brothers, so we understand.... and will keep you all in our thoughts. ~Susan |
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12 Mar 07 - 08:10 AM (#1994205) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall I can't even talk to him. He lost his hearing in the artillery i Korea, and I lost my voice....the thousand natural shocks that flesh is heir to... |
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12 Mar 07 - 08:11 AM (#1994207) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Keith A of Hertford Very sorry to hear your news mate. I hope you find the strength for the tough times ahead. You have mine and Mary's best wishes. Keith. |
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12 Mar 07 - 08:16 AM (#1994210) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: ranger1 I thought I potsed here already...Kendall, you always get my good thoughts. I'll give you a hug when I see you. |
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12 Mar 07 - 08:58 AM (#1994254) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Alba Sending my Love and support to Daryll and to you dear Kendall and Jacqui. Holding you All in my heart at this difficult time. If there is anything I can do to help in some small way do not hesitate to let me know. Judi |
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12 Mar 07 - 09:03 AM (#1994258) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,Cats Kendall, it is dreadful when you lose a brother, or in my case a sister. I know you want to say things and you can't speak and he can't hear, but say them anyway. Sit and hold his hand and think to him all the things you want to say. He'll 'hear', he'll know and so will you. Much love. Kathy & Jon |
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12 Mar 07 - 09:23 AM (#1994287) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Jerry Rasmussen Hey, Kendall: I was so concerned when I saw this thread this morning. My wife and I are part of a prayer chain at church, and it seems like every day we have new people to pray for. We have some tragedies down this way, too. As others have said, there's no easy way through all of this. When you lose communication, it makes it that much harder. But, not all words are spoken with our voice, or heard through our ears. There is a connection that transcends physical communication. The last few weeks of my Mother's life, she was too weak to dial the phone and ultimately, too weak to even be able to carry on a conversation. We still called and left messages on her answering machine that the nurses would play for her, and they meant a lot to her. We've visited many people over the years who can't speak, or show any signs of communication, but when you held their hand, they'd squeeze it firmly as an affirmation of something you said. Your brother knows that you are praying for him and that is a comfort. We'll keep the prayers flowing from down here.. Jerry and Ruth |
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12 Mar 07 - 11:05 AM (#1994400) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Jean(eanjay) Thoughts sent from Yorkshire. |
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12 Mar 07 - 11:08 AM (#1994403) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Crane Driver So sorry to hear the news. We're thinking of you and yours. Can't say any more than that really. Andrew & Carole |
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12 Mar 07 - 11:58 AM (#1994439) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Ebbie Cap'n, who was it who said, loss doesn't get any easier, we just get better at it? Holding your brother's hand, meeting his eyes, just being there, is telling him everything that the both of you need to say and hear. {{{{hug}}}} Ebbie |
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12 Mar 07 - 11:59 AM (#1994444) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: folk1e It was hard when I lost my dad to the big C, it will be hard when I loose my wife to it! The only conclusion I have come to is not to view life as a "right" but as a "gift". It's not what you have got it's what you do with it! |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:01 PM (#1994445) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: RoyH (Burl) Kind thoughts and prayers across the water from Mrs Burl and I. Try to think of the good times together Kendall. Happy memories will be a comfort in course of time. Burl. |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:10 PM (#1994453) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Rasener Kendall, my thoughts are with you. Les |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:24 PM (#1994462) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Metchosin Sorry to hear about your brother Kendall. All my best thoughts go out to you and your family. My old Mum died this weekend. Some goodbyes are never easy. We sang her along and it seemed to help her, myself and my brother. |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:34 PM (#1994469) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Escamillo I´m very sorry Kendall. My thoughts are with you and your family. Un abrazo from Buenos Aires Andrés |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:43 PM (#1994477) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: eddie1 Hi Kendall No help right now but the time will come when you can look back on events together and smile then even later, look back and laugh. As long as someone remembers us, we're not really dead. Thinking of you mate. Eddie |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:45 PM (#1994479) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST, anonymous Sad. Sorry. Condolences. |
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12 Mar 07 - 12:49 PM (#1994484) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Lonesome EJ Sorry to hear it, Captain. My thoughts are with you. Ernie |
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12 Mar 07 - 01:08 PM (#1994498) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Dan Schatz Dear Kendall, What a terrible loss to deal with. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Our thoughts and care are with you and your family - and though it is a time of loss, there is always something to celebrate in a life well lived. Love, Dan and Geeta |
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12 Mar 07 - 01:35 PM (#1994507) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Deckman I can only begin to imagine what you're going through. One of the best things you can do is to take extra good care of YOURSELF right now. That might sound a little strange, but you're very needed right now and the demands on you will be increasing. Best wishes to you. Bob |
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12 Mar 07 - 01:37 PM (#1994508) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Ebbie Metch, my condolences to you too. I've been there. At my age, sometimes there seem to be more loved ones on the 'other side' than there are those remaining here. That's a good reason to collect new loved ones all the time... |
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12 Mar 07 - 02:16 PM (#1994551) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: katlaughing Mets, all my love and good thoughts to you, too. It's not easy to lose a parent. I don't know why, but the following quote seems to want to be posted here. It is from one of Nevada Barr's books: Ghosts were not the spirits of the dead returning but the memories of the living not yet laid to rest. Namaste, kat |
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12 Mar 07 - 02:27 PM (#1994560) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Mrs.Duck We're thinking of you. Jane and Geoff |
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12 Mar 07 - 02:28 PM (#1994565) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Dave the Gnome Positive thoughts from this little corner of the world as well. I will sing a song for both of you at the club tonight. Dave |
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12 Mar 07 - 02:50 PM (#1994589) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,Nancy King at work Kendall, I'm so very sorry to hear this sad news. Just know that you -- and your brother -- are in the thoughts of many people right now. Hang on to all those great memories! Nancy |
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12 Mar 07 - 03:14 PM (#1994606) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: open mike Oh, Kendall, Here's hoping that his passing is as good as it can be. (even though that may sound odd right now) I wish I was there to offer a hand to hold, and hugs to help you both through this. sending love and light...winging your way. Laurel |
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12 Mar 07 - 04:48 PM (#1994687) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Maryrrf I'm so sorry to hear this Kendall. |
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12 Mar 07 - 06:06 PM (#1994750) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Hollowfox Strange, isn't it...how on this forum, where words are so important, it's so hard to find the right ones to say. My heart goes out to you and yours, and tonight when I get home, I will indeed light a $#@!-reduction candle. This candle thing may have started out as half a joke years ago, but they're one way for me to think about you when I'm home, away from the computer. I know there'll be $#@! to deal with, and I hope that our thoughts, prayers and the occasional candle will lighten the load. |
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12 Mar 07 - 07:36 PM (#1994854) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Bert Love and kind thoughts on their way from everyone here. Bert. |
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12 Mar 07 - 07:39 PM (#1994862) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Dave the Gnome I did 'John Kanaka'. Everyone joined in. Just picture us all singing for you and your brother, Kendall. Landlocked limeys singing an American shanty. Hope it brings a smile:-) Cheers Dave |
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12 Mar 07 - 07:40 PM (#1994864) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: SINSULL Kendall, Daryll lived the life he chose. In some ways I envy him. Make sure he knows you love him. I keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Mary |
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12 Mar 07 - 07:58 PM (#1994887) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: JudyB Kendall, our thoughts are with you and yours. The hug will follow next time we see you, but this will have to do for now: (((((((Kendall))))))) Love, JudyB & Charley Noble |
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12 Mar 07 - 08:29 PM (#1994915) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: TRUBRIT Oh Kendall, I am so very sorry. Much much love to you and to your brother and to Jacqui |
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12 Mar 07 - 09:01 PM (#1994941) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Sorcha Well, I'm sorry too, esp if his time here was too short, but things do this. All of them. Plants, animals....not even the rocks live forever as my dad said. He will finish with this, and no doubt go on to something else. Hopefully better. Not a day goes by that I don't miss my loved ones, but I'll never wish them back here. I miss them for MY sake, not theirs. Better a life lived long and in wonder than not a life at all. We cannont say what comes after this. I am sure there is something. My dad left this life in 1989, and for a few years he hung around all the time, mostly checking on Mom. He still stops in for a bit now and then. You just have to believe. And do ask after them......someone will answer. |
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12 Mar 07 - 10:01 PM (#1994979) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,Art Thieme Kendall, So sorry to hear this bad news. After a certain point, it does seem it's one loss after another. Nothing more to say. Just know we're thinking of you. Art |
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12 Mar 07 - 10:40 PM (#1994993) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: KT I'm thinking of you, Kendall, as you walk through this time. |
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12 Mar 07 - 10:47 PM (#1994997) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Peter Kasin Kendall, I am so sorry to hear of this. I hope his passing is as painless as possible. My thoughts are with you and jacqui. Chanteyranger |
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12 Mar 07 - 11:09 PM (#1995007) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: katlaughing Sorcha, that was beautiful. Thanks. |
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13 Mar 07 - 09:53 AM (#1995327) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,lox Kendall I can't comment on your brother, but if he's anything like you then he has depth, subtlety, wit and sublime quality in his character. The loss will be profound. But only because his presence was of such infinite value. And for that you can be forever grateful. Take care of yourself. lox |
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13 Mar 07 - 11:47 AM (#1995468) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Bill D I guess the real important thing now is that he knows that you care...and this doesn't require words. Just being there can speak volumes. It is never easy to lose someone close...all you can do is help them ease the passing.....and remember. |
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13 Mar 07 - 02:08 PM (#1995599) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Seamus Kennedy Hang in there, Skipper.He knows you're with him. |
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13 Mar 07 - 02:33 PM (#1995632) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Partridge I echo what Sorcha said. Still thinking of you and your brother. Still sitting in front of the keyboard and not finding the words(if they exist) to bring you any comfort - but I'm trying, lots of love, Pat xxxxx |
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13 Mar 07 - 03:57 PM (#1995703) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: My guru always said So sorry Kendall, candle lit here & thinking of you & Darryl, Hil x |
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13 Mar 07 - 05:34 PM (#1995800) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: The Vulgar Boatman Sing him home all you good people. May he come to his place in peace. C. |
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13 Mar 07 - 06:15 PM (#1995837) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: catspaw49 Sorry to come so late to this thread Kendall, but you have my deepest symapthy and best wishes as this part of your brother's life draws to a close. In the ending days and hours of my closest friend's life we sat together in comfortable silence, the presence of the other was enough for each one. I will remember and value those days long past my own time. "Sometimes the best sort of love can wash away the pain And the best kind of answer has no sound." .......Peter Himmelman Spaw |
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13 Mar 07 - 06:28 PM (#1995845) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Bobert I'm so sorry, Kendall. Your family will be in my thoughts and in my prayers... Bobert |
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13 Mar 07 - 07:36 PM (#1995889) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: momnopp {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Kendall}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} |
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13 Mar 07 - 08:25 PM (#1995929) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall You people are so incredible. I can't thank you enough for your support. Love on all of you. |
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13 Mar 07 - 08:48 PM (#1995943) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Gulliver Sad for you. Take care...lots of folk are thinking of you. Don |
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13 Mar 07 - 09:51 PM (#1995967) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Stilly River Sage Wonderful sentiments posted here, Kendall. I hope they help. I especially like Spaw's remarks about just spending time together. I know from what you wrote how much you love your brother, and I see from what others write here how much they love you. SRS |
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14 Mar 07 - 04:31 AM (#1996097) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Megan L Sorry i did not spot this earlier all of you are in our thoughts and prayers Dauvitt and his Meg |
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14 Mar 07 - 05:06 PM (#1996845) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Carly Please know that, like so many others here, we send our sympathy and love to you and your family. Spend time now as you can with your brother; I am sure it will help him to know he is loved and appreciated. Perhaps you could write down whatever you feel you most want to say to him; it may help both of you, and fortunately, you still have time to deliver it to him. You are in my thoughts, and in my heart. Carly |
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15 Mar 07 - 08:41 AM (#1997422) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Mrrzy So very, very sorry to read about this. My thoughts will stay with you. |
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15 Mar 07 - 01:34 PM (#1997685) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,ib48 thoughts go out to you kendall |
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18 Mar 07 - 03:58 PM (#2000459) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: maeve I'm thinking of you today, Kendall. |
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19 Mar 07 - 01:22 PM (#2001198) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Kim C I'm just now seeing this. Hugs and prayers to all your family. |
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29 Mar 07 - 07:26 PM (#2011177) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST I just got word that my brother died. I saw it coming a year and a half ago but it is still a shock. The end of an era. This message was posted by Kendall without a cookie. I'm sure he had more things on his mind than whether or not he was signed in. My condolences to you Kendall. |
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29 Mar 07 - 07:33 PM (#2011180) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Deckman Yes friend, it is the end of an era. And you will honor that era as only you can do. Take VERY good care of yourself ... there will be people needing YOU. Love to you, Bob |
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29 Mar 07 - 07:45 PM (#2011192) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: catspaw49 The end of an era but certainly not the end of memories. Today there may be a hole in your heart but the years of memories will soon fill it again. I am beginning to believe that our hearts are simply refillable holes where the reality of today is replaced by the thoughts of good times now gone. Be strong and my best to you Kendall. Spaw |
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29 Mar 07 - 07:49 PM (#2011195) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall Belay that last...some asshole in Alabama spread the word that he had died. I just got word that he is not dead. Sorry about that. |
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29 Mar 07 - 07:50 PM (#2011196) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: SINSULL So sorry, Captain. |
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29 Mar 07 - 07:55 PM (#2011204) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Deckman WOW! What's that all about? |
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29 Mar 07 - 07:58 PM (#2011206) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Deckman Do you want me to go to Alabama? |
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29 Mar 07 - 08:11 PM (#2011227) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: catspaw49 "Asshole" does not seem to be a strong enough epithet for someone doing something like that! I have a few if you'd like to borrow some...... Spaw |
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29 Mar 07 - 08:14 PM (#2011229) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: katlaughing I know some folks down there who are not particular about what they hunt, Kendall...just say the word. What a sick bastard. Take a deep breathe and know we are still here for you as is the Creator. luvyakat |
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29 Mar 07 - 08:17 PM (#2011237) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Sandra in Sydney what a horrible thing to do to anxious family & friends. hugs to you. sandra |
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29 Mar 07 - 09:01 PM (#2011264) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: DougR So sorry Kendall. My older brother died a year ago May 8, and I can empathize with you. Losing your only sibling is not easy. God bless. DougR |
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29 Mar 07 - 11:16 PM (#2011352) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: jacqui.c And if I find out who started the rumour they will get a piece of my not inconsiderable mind. Right now I'm pissed off. Kendall has enough on his plate without this sort of nonsense. |
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30 Mar 07 - 05:42 AM (#2011564) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Hawker Mudcat hugs Jacqui and Kendall still coming your way, Jacqui if you need a back-up I'll come and give them a piece of my mind too! Hope the fingers are healing too! Love, Lucy |
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30 Mar 07 - 07:47 AM (#2011643) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall There is a certain witless, skanky skagg that he used to hang out with and right now, she is my prime suspect. |
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30 Mar 07 - 08:56 AM (#2011701) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: freda underhill Kendall, I've just read this thread. all my best wishes to you, your brother and jacqui, freda |
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30 Mar 07 - 10:30 AM (#2011794) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Stilly River Sage What a cruel prank. Malicious. I'm sorry you're exposed to such a personality's behavior. The death of a loved-one is hard enough to deal with. SRS |
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30 Mar 07 - 01:46 PM (#2011960) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: ranger1 Kendall, you want I should go lace up my steel-toed logging boots and go kick the crap out of someone for you? |
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30 Mar 07 - 02:24 PM (#2011984) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: gnu Sweet Jaysus! Thoughts and prayers dear friend. |
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30 Mar 07 - 05:53 PM (#2012143) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,lox Woooaaaaahhhh folks ... Some witless skanky skagg isn't worth all this energy. She matters not a jot, so let us not degrade the quality of this thread one mote further by giving her one more inch of column space. I hope you folks don't feel I am being a thread dictator - I know how annoying it is when people try to do that. However I would humbly suggest we reserve the rest of this thread for those who are worth our thoughts and concern. Take care Kendall Make the most of the time you have. |
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30 Mar 07 - 06:03 PM (#2012146) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: skipy There is a certain witless, skanky skagg that he used to hang out with and right now, she is my prime suspect. Drop it, this piece of shit must not be allowed to take away even a second of the time that you two have together. Deal with her later. Skipy |
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30 Mar 07 - 06:29 PM (#2012162) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: jacqui.c I think that there will be a number of people with a bone to pick with this one, in time. Sometimes it just helps to vent though. |
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30 Mar 07 - 08:07 PM (#2012216) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: SINSULL Put her aside, my loves. She has to live with herself. That is punishment enough. Positive thoughts to your brother and you. Mary |
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31 Mar 07 - 04:47 AM (#2012434) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: mouldy My thoughts are with you. Make the most of every precious moment and treasure it. There are pleasant memories you can make to sustain you in the future, even now. Big hugs Andrea |
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31 Mar 07 - 07:15 AM (#2012497) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall Here is another forgotten casualty for George to ignore. My Brother served in Korea in the field artillery where he sacrificed his hearing. Now, he's in a private nursing home waiting for admission to the VA hospital. I don't know myself but I'm told that VA hospitals are full of alcoholics. What does that have to do with battle scars? It may be a result of serving but it's not like having a leg shot off! |
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31 Mar 07 - 07:46 AM (#2012513) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: GUEST,sinky my thoughts are with you friend.God bless |
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31 Mar 07 - 11:06 AM (#2012610) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: SINSULL Kendall, Don't be too hard on your brother. He saw things in Korea that no one was meant to see. We raise our sons to be good decent people then ship them off to defend their country. But let's not talk about disemboweled babies, rapes, lost limbs, burned bodies. Let's not deal with the mind changes brought on by living in fear 24/7. Better it should all fester in their minds than have the general population and our government face reality. War is not pretty or noble or full of strong shining young faces. Its horrors corrupt all who are involved. John McCain went through years of night terrors and worse before coming to terms with his past. Many are not so lucky. A friend of mine, an ex-Marine and opera singer, told me in a weak moment about hiding in a trench in Korea and hearing his buddies screaming for their mothers. He still wept over it. Your brother is a good man. He deals with his demons the best he can. He is one of those we honor on Veteran's Day. The dead ones are remembered as young and strong and good. The living disgrace themselves with drugs and alcohol while we stick them in sub-standard rooms at Walter Reed. Mary |
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31 Mar 07 - 09:26 PM (#2012966) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: AllisonA(Animaterra) Kendall, I just saw this. I'm sending light and love and compassion to you and to your brother as well. We're all here with you, captain. Allison |
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31 Mar 07 - 09:47 PM (#2012984) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: wysiwyg VA's are for ALL medical needs of vets, not only war-related. Knew someone treated for advanced alcoholism in a VA-- best treatment he ever got. ~S~ |
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31 Mar 07 - 10:14 PM (#2013007) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall I have no complaint about vets being treated for alcoholism but when they are taking up room that a seriously damaged vet could be using, that's different. Alcolohism is self inflicted and should not be on the same level as combat wounded. |
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21 Jun 07 - 05:15 PM (#2083419) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: kendall The Grim Reaper came for my brother last night. It's a drill that no one is excused from, but it's hard to say goodby to one who has been so close. I hope he finds the peace that eluded him in life. |
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21 Jun 07 - 05:20 PM (#2083425) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: John MacKenzie Kendall my friend, it comes to us all, and it only really hurts us who are left behind. Those who are gone are past pain, and better off than us in that respect. It's been a long time coming, mourn him decently, and enjoy the memories. Giok |
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21 Jun 07 - 05:23 PM (#2083426) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: gnu My sincerest thoughts and prayers. RIP. And, peace be with you, dear Kendall. Gary |
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21 Jun 07 - 05:28 PM (#2083432) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Hawker Kendall, So sorry to hear this, though for him,I am sure it is a happy release. Love to you and Jacqui and your family, sending you all my love, may his next journey be on a smoother path! From your birthday buddie, Lucy x |
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21 Jun 07 - 05:45 PM (#2083456) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Ebbie {{{{{{Kendall}}}}}} Ebbie |
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21 Jun 07 - 05:52 PM (#2083457) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Wesley S I'm sorry for your loss. |
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21 Jun 07 - 05:58 PM (#2083462) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Bill D It was a long and sad farewell....but there must be relief mixed with the grief. He is at peace now....I hope it comes soon to those who miss him. |
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21 Jun 07 - 06:02 PM (#2083470) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: George Papavgeris Warmest sympathies, Kendall. Every case is different of course, but in a weird way I feel closer to my dad now (he died last September) than ever before. I talk daily to his picture, on the windowsill, 2 feet away from me. Oh, I know, it's just symbolism - I talk to my memory of him, but isn't that the essence of people? I consider his likely approval or otherwise of my decisions and behaviour more now than I ever did when he was alive. So I don't miss him, he is with me, within me. And I am grateful for his time on earth. Perhaps an equivalent approach might help. But it's at times like these when we feel most like little kids, despite our age. I am sure big bro knows your love for him and will take you under his wing again. |
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21 Jun 07 - 06:30 PM (#2083494) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Rog Peek So sorry to hear of your sad loss Kendall. |
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21 Jun 07 - 06:48 PM (#2083511) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Linda Goodman Zebooker My sympathies, Kendall. I hope the memories of you caring about each other will help you and comfort you. May the good things your brother did in his life live after him. Linda |
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21 Jun 07 - 06:53 PM (#2083516) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Sorcha What they said, Kendall. I can't add much at all. |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:00 PM (#2083524) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Janie I'm sorry, Kendall. May he be at peace. Holding you and all who loved him in my thoughts and prayers. Janie |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:01 PM (#2083525) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: vectis Sorry to hear that he's gone Kendall. Sending hugs to you as I type. |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:08 PM (#2083530) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: wysiwyg Peace to him. And peace to you too, Kendall. ~Susan & Greg~ |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:17 PM (#2083536) Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's brother is dying From: Leadfingers Commisserations Kendall ! |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:23 PM (#2083538) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: bobad My condolences to you and to all who knew and loved your brother. |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:27 PM (#2083541) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: Sandra in Sydney wishing you & all who loved him peace sandra |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:44 PM (#2083555) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: katlaughing {{{{{{{Kendall}}}}}}} May you find comfort in the Great Spirit and your memories. Your brother will know. luvyakat |
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21 Jun 07 - 07:53 PM (#2083562) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Skivee how sad |
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21 Jun 07 - 08:13 PM (#2083578) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Azizi My condolences to your family, Kendall. |
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21 Jun 07 - 08:15 PM (#2083582) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: TRUBRIT Kendall -- so sorry.....hugs from S.P. -- Deborah and the chef! |
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21 Jun 07 - 08:20 PM (#2083587) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: SINSULL I am sorry, Captain. He lived his life his way. I hope he rests peacefully. |
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21 Jun 07 - 09:08 PM (#2083615) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Rt Revd Sir jOhn from Hull Sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you at this sad time. John |
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21 Jun 07 - 09:40 PM (#2083637) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: artbrooks Regrets from us as well. Probably a relief to all concerned, but still a time for sadness when it finally comes. Art and Jenn |
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21 Jun 07 - 09:51 PM (#2083640) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: GUEST,meself My condolences ... |
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21 Jun 07 - 10:19 PM (#2083654) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Alice My sympathy to you and the family, Kendall. I, too, hope he finds peace. Alice |
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21 Jun 07 - 10:39 PM (#2083660) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Deckman "WHEN YOU'RE SINGING FOR YOUR FRIENDS, WHO'S TIME ON EARTH IS THROUGH, THEY'LL BE GATHERED UP ABOVE, THEY'LL BE SINGING SONGS FOR YOU!" |
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21 Jun 07 - 11:23 PM (#2083677) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: maeve Kendall- I've sent you a PM. Warmly, maeve |
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22 Jun 07 - 12:40 AM (#2083709) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Barry Finn Sorry to hear of your loss & of his passing Kendall. Barry |
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22 Jun 07 - 03:10 AM (#2083755) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: MBSLynne (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Kendall)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Love Lynne |
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22 Jun 07 - 03:46 AM (#2083766) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Catherine Jayne SOrry to hear of your loss. Thinking about you and your family Khatt |
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22 Jun 07 - 03:54 AM (#2083768) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Partridge I'm so sorry Kendall,thinking of you, take care, much love, Pat xx |
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22 Jun 07 - 04:31 AM (#2083785) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Megan L Our thoughts are with you and the family Kendall. Words can mean so little but they are all people have to let you know they care. Dauvitt and his Meg |
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22 Jun 07 - 04:46 AM (#2083793) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: GUEST,The Barden of England at work So sorry the hear this. My thoughts are with you all. John Barden |
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22 Jun 07 - 05:49 AM (#2083819) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: bfdk Sorry to hear about your loss, Kendall. Kind thoughts and a big hug from this side of the Pond. Best wishes, Bente |
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22 Jun 07 - 06:36 AM (#2083842) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: mouldy My sincere condolences. Just because it's expected doesn't make it any easier. Andrea |
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22 Jun 07 - 07:02 AM (#2083868) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Desdemona Please accept my sympathy and condolences for your loss. ~D |
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22 Jun 07 - 07:23 AM (#2083880) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: skipy All of the above. Skipy |
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22 Jun 07 - 07:24 AM (#2083881) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Pistachio May his release from pain give you relief. My thoughts are with you and your family and friends. Mudcat hugs ((((((((((((((((((((Kendall and Family)))))))))))))))))))) Hazel. x |
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22 Jun 07 - 08:09 AM (#2083907) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: ranger1 So sorry to hear about your brother Kendall. A virtual hug now and a real one soon. |
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22 Jun 07 - 08:14 AM (#2083908) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: sapper82 Kendall, there is now a big hole in your life, exactly the shape of your brother. At the moment, and for some time to come, the edges of that hole will be very raw and very painfull to touch. As time goes by, they will start to scab over as they heal, but will still hurt and be liable to bleed and weep if touched too roughly. As more time passes, the scabs will fall off and the edges of the hole will heal. That hole however, will remain and those edges will always be sensitive to over rough handling. My sympathy and best regards to you. Bob |
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22 Jun 07 - 08:53 AM (#2083926) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: kendall I thank each and every one of you for your posts and PMs. They do help. My mind is filled with the good times. He bought me a second hand bike when I was 13. He gave me a car when I was 16. We raised a little hell way back when...picking and grinning, chasing women, some debauchery, few regrets. He was one of my most avid fans. I'm really going to miss him. |
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22 Jun 07 - 09:30 AM (#2083964) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: Rapparee Of course you'll miss him. And you will continue to miss him. But one day you'll hear his laugh and turn around and you'll know that he's still around because you remember. |
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22 Jun 07 - 12:19 PM (#2084113) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Mrrzy Very sad news, Kendall. Nous avons toute la vie pour noius amuser / Nous avons toute la mort pour nous reposer! I wish him a good rest. Love you. |
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22 Jun 07 - 12:36 PM (#2084140) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: Greg B Kendall--- It sounds to me as if he'll live in your heart for as many as are the number of your own years in this world, and in the next. He was fortunate to have you for a brother. Greg |
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22 Jun 07 - 03:12 PM (#2084285) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Mrs.Duck So sad but so many happy memories. Our thoughts are with you. Jane and Geoff |
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22 Jun 07 - 03:16 PM (#2084290) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: HouseCat Peace in your heart, Kendall. Good thoughts coming your way. HC |
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22 Jun 07 - 03:19 PM (#2084293) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Herga Kitty Kendall - I've only just seen this, and am very sorry for your loss. Would give you a hug if I could, so please accept a virtual hug instead, fwiw. Kitty |
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22 Jun 07 - 03:59 PM (#2084328) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Ythanside Sorry, bud. |
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22 Jun 07 - 04:36 PM (#2084352) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: SussexCarole We're so sorry to hear your sad news Kendall. Our thoughts are with you and Jacqui. Love and hugs Carole & Andrew x |
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22 Jun 07 - 06:37 PM (#2084455) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: skipy Kendall, I have just reread the whole thread, thinking of you and your family, hope your brother now finds the peace that he deserved. Skipy |
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22 Jun 07 - 11:13 PM (#2084570) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June From: Dan Schatz What a long and many-faceted journey its been for you. I'm so sorry for all that you've lost, though grateful for the peace that has come. It's easy to forget how complicated people can be - we've never talked about your brother, but he sounds like someone who embodied a lot of good and some challenges, wrapped all together. But I know for sure that you're who you are partly through his influence, and in that he gave a wonderful gift to the world. Dan Schatz |
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23 Jun 07 - 12:10 AM (#2084591) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: Mickey191 Kendall, I'm sorry for your loss. He is at peace now. |
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23 Jun 07 - 04:19 AM (#2084678) Subject: RE: Obit: Kendall's brother is dying -RIP 20 June 2007 From: alanabit Now the suffering and the uncertainty are over, maybe you can move on to enjoying the memories. Peace will come. |