Liz the Squeak
'if you love something, let it free'
Don't keep phoning. Sooner or later you will piss the other person off.
Concentrate on what YOU are doing...you are right, I have been thinking/phoning him much too much lately.

EBarnacle
Part of an adult relationship is a willingness to allow your partner to have a life... yes but that one isn't easy.

Ms Lemon
We also communicate... I'll try harder with this one.

Bobert
If its real it's real. Time will tell... this is good!

Jeanie
If you are not normally prone to feelings of jealousy, mistrust or uncertainty, or if you didn't have these feelings at first but they have been building up,... I'm not normally and haven't been until recently, but there has been a woman showing a bit of interest towards him, in front of me! What if she goes to his house on her own? I suddenly feel very unstable. I suppose it's because Christmas is coming and people tend to get into the party mood. He will be going to parties/performing at folk clubs etc., without me. I'm not actually going to any parties on my own. OK I think I don't trust him, but I must try. I will talk to him about my feelings.

You people are very wise and perceptive. Thanks very much for your words. I have found it a great support.

PJ