Ah, Alison, where were you during my scary pregnancy and birth? I should have gotten here sooner!
Matthew, I'm glad you got a chance to post back to us. I was relieved to see your wife has a sit-down hobby, that will make things easier for her. If she wants to feel really productive, she could probably make quite a bit of money selling her finished projects. I don't know if this would prove too emotional an idea, but there is a woman in my area making a fortune selling home-made baby blanket/sweater/hat sets. People love to buy these things!
I've no idea what her taste in movies is, but I count Sense & Sensibility, While You Were Sleeping, Maverick, The Sure Thing, Raising Arizona, and Spinal Tap among my favorite harmless comedies.
How's about Nathaniel? Means the same thing as Jonathan. Jared? Jaden? Joel? (Noticed you seem to like the Js)
Take care of YOURSELF, too; you're no good to your sweetie if you're burned out. :-)