I post anonymously because there are people who read Mudcat who might know the same people I do.

I have known two people who lived as transgendered-one who completed the process surgically, and one who has not yet. (Both from male to female)

I have no personal opinion about the decision, and like both of these people, neither of whom is playing professionally.

My only real concern is that neither of the individuals, how to say it delicately, looks the new gender they have chosen. Both have had awkward transitions trying to dress, walk, talk and act believably. It should NOT affect public acceptance, and it really did not affect the quality of their music, but I know that it has bothered some people who know them.

If I were to offer any advice, it would be to reflect in depth whether you intend to be open about the situation, or to try to hide the old identity. Ask those who know your story to be honest with you about how they view the change, and don't assume that you are simply 'passing'.

I hope that your new life works out well, and that public participation in music does not suffer, but people being what they are, this is not always easy.