Well, my ex was married 4 times but only told me about 2. The first he said was his girlfriend in high school whose dad beat her severely and nearly killed her, so he married her to get her away from him. Then next was his ex-wife with whom he had 2 girls. He said that while he was working in the offshore oilfields that she cheated on him with 13 and 14 year old boys. (Actually, I can believe that about her as she would let her now husband trade sex with the girls for drugs with his dealers- sick B****H! Judy Romano Broussard whatever the rest of your name is now, if you ever read this I have a present for you, come to Texas and get it!) I digress, I did not know about the other two though. So the weekend prior to marrying my now wonderful husband, he married some girl he was living with, then the weekend I got married she left him. Later he hooked up with a girl half his age that I actually liked okay. While we were talking one day she said that she was at home telling my ex and his brother how embarrassed that she was to tell her parents that she was going to be wife #3. Imagine her surprise when my ex-brother-in-law informed her that she would be #7. And imagine my shock when I learned I was #5! But even so, the crap that I endured from him and other lying men made me appreciate my husband that I have now. So look at the positives in men, and if possible, get to know his mother. How he treats her and how she treats him will tell you volumes about his character. Susu