Bonnie, That's a tough one. Usually you can find an open session in a pub somewhere. Eventually, someone will pull you aside and tell you about the not-so-open sessions. Check out the local folk music society, if there is one. Also, hit the festivals, where the best music is in the parking lot, around the campfires, or at the hotels afterwards. Remember, if people pick on you, it probably means they like you so don't take it to heart. At least it seems to work that way in Irish music. Finally, playing with people of all different skill levels is a must. Not only is it only fair to accept newer people than you if you expect the same, but playing with stonger musicians will bring you to a new level, and playing with weaker ones will force you to play stronger to keep the tunes together. Rich