I've learned that on the Internet and in person, it's a good idea to know as much about the person as possible before you get emotionallly attached. Know about their living situation, their typical day, their everyday life. Don't simply say sweet nothings without putting your feet on the ground. I learned it the hard way, and it still hurts. Of course, this doesn't guarantee not getting hurt, but it decreases the chances.

Hang in there GRC. It does get better.

Teresa