bobad said "Just because you're on a diet does'nt mean you can't look at the menu."

Sometimes you're so full that just the thought of more food makes you nauseated, and you don't want to throw up what you just had because it was really good. Maybe marriage isn't the romantic/sexual equivalent of a diet.

That said, my husband isn't my soul mate in the usual sense of the term. He is however, a damn fine complementary force in my life, and I hope he'll be around for all my life.