I wonder just how many men have a clue what happens to a woman's body when she gets pregnant? Really. Do you? Do you understand that a woman's body changes FOREVER with one pregnancy? Their feet grow bigger, their body chemistry changes, they even smell differently? And that's not even going into what happens to veins, hormones and their weight.
Some of the postings here really chap my hide and that doesn't happen too often. All of these clueless posts from men who've never stopped to think, really think, what giving birth, having an alien being taking over total control of your body- sucking nutrients out you. And doubly shame on you if you're a man whose partner has had a child with. You should know what happens and what an incredible sacrifice and gift a woman gives to have a baby be born into the world through her body. (Most woman believe the pain and changes are worth it for their child, although I don't believe the act should be taken so lightly.)
If a man wants a baby so badly, and are all fired up about the baby or their parental experience- adopt one of the thousands which need homes. Please.
Otherwise, carry and wear a condom and don't whine and complain when your female partner wants you to use a condom.
Gee, I don't know if it's obvious, but I am so totally sick of men who want sex, don't want to wear protection, AND think that they can dictate what a woman chooses to do with her body.
-- SunnySister- who wishes she could write more like CarolC but can't seem to find the patience...