Thankyou Kat,6,Freda and Jacqui for sharing.That's more along the lines of what I was hoping I would see on this tread. You've been very helpful. I expect this will be a stressful time for the two of us - but it's what you go through in a commited relationship. Although I must admit that I'm looking forward to this being in the past.
And thankyou for taking this thread seriously. I appreciate it. I'm rarely a guest without a name but for this topic I thought it would be prudent. Not for me but for my wife. We have friends that are members of the Mudcat also. And until she's willing to talk about it I figured posting as a guest would be the polite thing to do.