Ah, leave each other alone. Where would all these kids come from without a man and a woman finding something pretty good about each other. Forgive everything is what I say, and do the best you can, but also take up the slack for some of us who don't do as good as we would probably like to do. We've all been there at one time or another. Kids need to be surrounded by a caring (at various levels) community and we all need kindness and forgiveness in our lives - don't we? (from a rough old tart with a fallen ass (what is an ass? a small horse?) who men dumped along the way - I don't think so! Really!)