You'll likely find your interest returning after menopause has settled in for the long term, and in spite of the medication. In the mean time, certainly you should explain your feelings to him before the trip. For your own well-being, however, may I suggest that the saying 'use it or lose it' applies, as menopause does not eliminate your entire hormonal output, and stimulation encourages healthy glands, as it were. In fact, it is thought the effects of testosterone (which women do produce in small amounts) are 'unmasked' to some extent when estrogen production slows down, and that, my dears, is A Good Thing, and doubtless is Why We Have Cougars.
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