Russ -
To quote a famous woman The woman was someone named Rebbetzin Kramer who also lived through the Holocaust. When she was older, a searching soul, someone who had traveled to India and all over trying to find the meaning of life, questioned her about that time in her life. The questioner said, (again not an exact quote) "that place [the concentration camp] must have been the worst place." To which the Rebbetzin replied, "not the worst, because I still had the opportunity to do the right things there." So, Russ, thank you for the apology, but to take that holy woman's words a bit further, completely unpleasant would be an exchange of words where no one grows. But your words raised thoughts and thoughts can lead to growth, hence no apology needed, rather a thank you from my end for causing me to take time today to stop and reflect...and hopefully grow.