Shambles,
What are you like in person? I ask this because having read this thread and some of your other postings you sound like a human terrier - once you get hold of something you never let go, you are very persistant. Can you understand that just repeating something doesn't make it true?
I can't work out what it is you really want. If the forum was run the way you wanted it to be would you become a regular poster?

I know you don't write in capitals but I can't help reading some of your posts like you were shouting!

What you are trying to do clearly is not working and you seem to have caused a lot of ill feeling. I hope that you manage to sort out your grievances soon, because alot of us are very fed up with the constant moaning. C'mon, life is for living - get yourself a secret santa for gods sake!

Pat x