You guys are great, thank you for the advice. It is very difficult to embark in something that is very complicated and intimidating to a newcomer and I can't say enough about how nice the advice is.

Chance definitely wants to take lessons with my husband and me and if he ever wants to do it independently, that won't be a problem. I still have more research to do on northern VA teachers.

Alright, so don't choke when I tell you all what I've done. I found a great deal on a used Fender Strat in green (did you know with a 9 yr old color matters?), so I picked it up, he doesn't know yet.

I am more interested in acoustic or acoustic electric lessons, so I will pick up something used in that family (thoughts for a Mom with tired hands?). I will take time to meet with the teachers I interview (and am interviewed by) and get some feedback on their teaching preference for starting guitar.

I have first hand experience that if kids lose interest you're wasting not only your money, but your time. So I am hesitant to force a style on him if there isn't a "notable" benefit (which it sounds like there is a debate on).
I feel like I should give you all some brilliant enlightened decision since you gave me so much help, but I am going to try not to rush (pretend you know nothing about the guitar I just rushed out and bought when I say that) and be flexible. I want this to be fun, it may be hard, but it shouldn't be an obligation. Kids now adays have so much on their plates and music has taken a back seat. If I can get him to stick with it, it will be one heck of an accomplishment.

Ok, if I haven't stressed it enough, you guys have made me feel welcome and I am very grateful. If you're really brave, maybe you'll endure some more silly questions from me.

Happy New Year!

Julie