Alanabit, may i take this opportunity to thankyou for this sentence.

"By lumping people all together and identifying groups of them as "different", you have the breeding ground for spite and mistrust. When you get to know people face to face, it can become impossible to believe the myths on which racism and sectarianism are built.      Anonymity makes it easier to pretend that all the lies are true."

You have put into words exactly how i feel, i was trying to explain exactly this to a friend of mine the other day, but i was not so eloquent, i will email this passage to her now and tell her this is what i meant.

Thankyou.