Ake and other antifags (I just made the word up) will have to accept the uncomfortable truth that freedom means freedom for everyone. The same society that allows us to, openly, express unpopular opinions allows others to do things that annoy us. Ergo, in a democracy, bigotry flourishes, intolerance is espoused and they are as protected by law as our own saner and truer biases.
As ake appears to be a sexual experimenter, he should be glad that he lives in a society that doesn't intrude into his erotic decisions, positions or choice of partners.
I don't know, for certain, whether homosexuality is inbred or optional (although I find it unlikely that someone would choose a life of exclusion and oppression), but, in any case, it is just one of those things that the aker is going to have to put up with, like ants at a picnic or Republican candidates.