I am in total shock, having only just heard the awful news. I would wish to associate myself with all the remarks made so far. Colin always gave the impression that he was having a good time, but also that to see YOU, personally, was the one thing that was needed to make it perfect.

I last saw Colin on the final night of Whitby - during the final concert at the Met I received some bad news and Col, without question or hesitation, simply walked up and quietly enveloped me in one of those safe, loving, reassuring hugs that have been mentioned so feelingly. A hug from Colin was always an experience to be enjoyed, whether consolatory or exuberant; he had an 'all-overish' quality in everything. To stand in the cool of the Met doorway, tucked under one of those slightly sweaty arms, and giggling helplessly at another outrageous remark, was a good place to be.

He was the last person we said goodnight to before leaving the Spa and his final words were, 'See you at a festival somewhere'.

Sadly not, and the world is a smaller place tonight. I raise a glass of good Islay whisky, and wish you safe home, my darling.

x Nancy (and Sam)