Will PM you, Sorcha. Don't have his mum's name, but I know his daughter's given names. If they use their dad's surname I know that too. Here's hoping, thanks a lot ...

And you too, Spaw, for the comfort and encouragement. Candle's still lit, finger's still crossed ... oh c'mon Cancerman, Sir Libra, Sir Endipity, Sir Facingisnotforwimps   .... please give us a boo ... be okay ... the world needs you and (most important   ;-) I-I-I-I want you back ...