When I look back over the years with my two children several milestones stick out.. With Chelsey my daughter it was her Wedding.. The day was amazing they were married in a beautiful park.. Chelsey looked like a princess.. all of that was expected.. but after the vows were said they turned and released thirty monarch butterflies..As they recited a beautiful American Indian Prayer.. It was breath taking to see.. but or course I couldn't see I was crying too hard... For Gabe... when we dropped him at college..He said " Well if its okey Mom, I'd like to start my new life now." Oh the tears I cried all the way home.. Both of them are my joy..