Absolutely fail to see how my asking makes me worse. Should nobody ever recommend a film, a band or even a new recipe to you? If you say no, then that's the last you'll hear of it from me.

I'm afraid it's rather arrogant of YOU to tar me with the same brush, especially if you don't know me, but that doesn't bother you in the slightest, does it. I don't answer for people I don't know, even if they are co-religionists. As a missionary, I kept notes of places that had said no. When transferred to another area, I already had no influence over the former. We have our share of idiots, of course, find me one group without.

Yes, I do know that what I believe will bring happiness, that's my conviction. I don't however believe in pressing or force-feeding it.

WHY is it wrong to ask?