Hello all,
   I was lead to a site from the IRtrad & wooden flute lists that is great for people like me who can't remember tune names. It's

www.tunepal.org

All you have to do is play the tune (or first few bars) into your computer mike and the site will transcribe what you played into abc notation (you don't have to know how to read it, the program does it all) and then searches for the tune for you. I just gave it a try and it worked perfect.