Justine, I have begun to realize something. Since only a few of us could get to New Hampshire, sharing our grief here is our way of holding a wake for Barry. These memories bring smiles, they bring tears; they help us realize the true dimensions of a friend we saw only in a few of his many aspects and dimensions; they put images of Barry even more firmly in our hearts, to hold there forever.
Bill and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss of a dear and wonderful husband and father. You are so much in our thoughts now. I keep remembering the glow on Barry's face whenever he spoke of you, Natalie or Gabriel.