I lost my dad to cancer, even got to hold his hand when he went! I also lost my wife this year so I can appreciate your situation. The only positive thing I can sugest is that if the situation were reversed, what would you want to happen? Do not feel guilty, you are almost certainly preventing further suffering! What greater gift can you give?
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