while it might be aceptable for a friend to come up and smack her bum, it is not ok for a stranger to.

although it is clearly an invite, it is not literal, open to everyone.
it is meant to be cheeky.

the same with thong straps, i always get an urge to go and ping them, no matter who it is wearing them.
it is one thing to get an urge or an idea, the worrying point comes when someone acts on it.
i am with whoever said, i don't like lasses wearing skimpy clothes, not for their saftey, but for their health, they must be feezing!!!
it all comes to personal responsibility and self control. yes people need to be aware of any danger, but, as others have said, just because someone has made a mistake in judgment, does not give anyone the right to take advantage.
there is no blame to the victims or rape. we did not choose it, or invite it. men are just as the rest of us capable of self control.

i do agree with one point of lizzies'. there are decent men out there who are outraged at this crime.

my word that hurt to say :)
x x