we all take risks everday. life is risky, to not to do anything because of fear is irrational. we would never talk to anyone or go anywhere.

i understand those of you who judge, i do it too. we sit in front of the tv and say " haven't people learned yet" where money scams and getting into cars thinking they are taxis without checking are concerned. being judgmental is easy when you are not emotionally attatched to the person things have happened to.
this means that although i understand, i still do not agree with you that in part some people are responsible for things happening to them. yes we can all do things that keep us safe but returning to what i said at the start of this post, what sort of life would that be?
empathy is the key. i think at least. we don't always have to experiance something to feel for people.

anyway take care all
jade x x x x