Sex without love is fun. Real good fun.
Sex with love is the ultimate expereince. Full stop.
So the debate re condoms is quite simple. Yes, many men go slightly flaccid when the condom is applied. I reckon this is psychological but dont mind putting it about that I am too big and they hurt......
No brainer all the same. A lifetime of problems just for one vinegar stroke is not worth thinking about although it is amazing how primeval instinct takes over at the time.
Still, better than having an imaginary friend telling you fun is a sin. No wonder so many people are fucked up. Should be a law against God botherers interfering with your sense of enjoying yourself.