Speaking from recent personal experience, Claire...be prepared to "kiss a lot of frogs" so to speak. It's a jungle out there. :-) The reality is, many people on dating websites are only looking for one thing (and a large portion of them are married!). It gets frustrating not being able to take people a face value, at least for me. But I remain cautiously optimistic. :-)
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